I get all of yall who can't listen to R Kelly because the songs are more than likely about young girls.
For me when I hear anybody singing a song. Even if I know their background. I don't think about who they could be singing the song to. I think about the person in my life when I hear them singing.
I respect where yall coming from though. Just not how my ears and thought process about the music works.
I can understand that. For you the song is more about the memory you attach to it than the person who wrote it...and I think that way about songs too to an extent. But I also can't ignore the history or potential history/meaning either just because it doesn't fit my own person memory. That's something I'm not able to do