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Should/do you care what other people think?

Title says it all... I really could less what people think of me. But to watch people change who they are, fake it just to be like is sickening. Especially online... the way people change up their posting style just to be liked...
 
the popular answer is no...

but the reality is that were social creatures by nature... we develop based on human interaction, we develop bonds, and relationships with people, and the perception those people have of us matters.....

the way we dress, our sense of humor, activities we do, places we like... damn near everything we do has something to do with human interaction....

love is only love if it's reciprocated....

shame and guilt are emotions only experienced by those who value the opinions of their peers.....

i'm not funny and clever, and witty, and nice , and smile, and overall a pleasant person just because.....

i gravitated towards those characteristics because i've learned that i enjoy the impact those things have on others..i like when people are nice to me....so i am nice to people first...

i like making people laugh, so i try to be funny and witty.....

i want people to like me, therefore i always present myself in a likable manner....it makes me happy to be around folk who like to be around me.....

only reason i explained so thoroughly is cuz we talked about his before, and folk swear they don't care what others think about them....and i just feel that's not natural...

you gotta be some sort of sociopath to truly not care what others think about us...

i mean look at us...every single one of us.....we're on here bcuz of the innate need for social interaction....and we truly be trying to entertain and make eachother laugh all day long......

those who don't fit in here... look for other places...

it's just natural in my opinion
 
To an extent. Its not a big deal to me though, but i think everybody likes the thought of being liked.

I'd have to agree that most people enjoy being "liked".

Now if it makes a difference in their day to day life whether they are or not is a separate thing.

I am a person who likes to make people smile and them liking me helps with that task.

Yet, if I am not liked and it's no fault of mine, then It doesn't bother me. I erase that interaction from my mental Rolodex and keep it pushing.
 
I'd have to agree that most people enjoy being "liked".

Now if it makes a difference in their day to day life whether they are or not is a separate thing.

I am a person who likes to make people smile and them liking me helps with that task.

Yet, if I am not liked and it's no fault of mine, then It doesn't bother me. I erase that interaction from my mental Rolodex and keep it pushing.

I like you
 
This was a thread.
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Debbie Downer
 
Damn! Y'all ain't gotta come at my neck. I just remember this being a thread before.

I'll see myself out.
 
Ion know bout like, but I'd rather people be cool wit me. I like to remove as much people as I can from the threat category to cordial. Usually makes everything go smoother. I rather u dislike me for something I did to you than you just chose that, ion like this nigga. Cause then i just write you off as someone worth dealin with.
 
I think I recall saying IDGAF if people like me or not.

I do however care if the person I like, likes me or I'm just wasting my time.
 
Inb4 Du says "if you say u dont care u do care cuz by saying it u cared to say it"


nvm
 
Inb4 Du says "if you say u dont care u do care cuz by saying it u cared to say it"


nvm
Du super mature on ABW, but been involved in some of the most childish shit on the IC
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Nigga went to grocery store to catch a fade wit a nigga he Neva seen before, and started asking random people if they was him
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But on ABW he..



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"Come on you guys.."



Nigga u put baby's in drawers to smash thots
 
i wish i could find the picture of you smiling as you smacked up your family
 
To the people that are important to me sure but if we aren't that close or not cool at all then no couldn't care less.
 
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