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ol girl who was brutally beaten and stabbed in the millitary can't think of her name but she posted on the IC heavy

coco butterfly.

Found it. She posted on the IC as coco butterfly

 
When she flipped the switch from Kai to Kia, you knew they was getting the beats....usually @Duwop or Kat lol
This is part of the reason why it's been tough to wrap my brain around her being a victim of domestic violence. I know she talked quite a bit about being submissive to her husband, but she seemed like she was nothing to play with. You truly never know what's going on in people's homes.
 
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This is part of why it's been tough to wrap my brain around her being a victim of domestic violence. I know she talked quite a bit about being submissive to her husband, but she seemed like she was nothing to play with. You truly never know what's going on in people's homes.
Folks do crazy things in the name of love 🤷🏿‍♂️

Her mother spoke about in those articles how if Kai had seen or known any other women in her situation she would have spoken out and gotten her help. Fought tooth and nail for DV victims but she couldn't see it for herself that she too was a victim and it be like that

Or it could also be said she was that aggressive on the IC because she couldn't be that way at home. Her husband could talk to her crazy or demean her but not no stranger off the net
 
This is part of the reason why it's been tough to wrap my brain around her being a victim of domestic violence. I know she talked quite a bit about being submissive to her husband, but she seemed like she was nothing to play with. You truly never know what's going on in people's homes.
If I read it correctly she tried to escape him and bro just caught up to her

Like Jackie told Ike you only gotta hit me once
 
Folks do crazy things in the name of love 🤷🏿‍♂️

Her mother spoke about in those articles how if Kai had seen or known any other women in her situation she would have spoken out and gotten her help. Fought tooth and nail for DV victims but she couldn't see it for herself that she too was a victim and it be like that

Or it could also be said she was that aggressive on the IC because she couldn't be that way at home. Her husband could talk to her crazy or demean her but not no stranger off the net


For a lot of folks...the internet is their escape from their own reality. It's a way to mask who they truly are, or what they may be going thru in their day to day lives.

For those who knew her personally offline...did she mention about having issues wit him? Maybe not outright. But did she throw any small hints that would indicate she may need help?
 
For a lot of folks...the internet is their escape from their own reality. It's a way to mask who they truly are, or what they may be going thru in their day to day lives.

For those who knew her personally offline...did she mention about having issues wit him? Maybe not outright. But did she throw any small hints that would indicate she may need help?


It used to be that we go on the internet to get away from the real world, but now it seems like people go back into the real world to get away from the internet because it’s so toxic nowadays
 
It used to be that we go on the internet to get away from the real world, but now it seems like people go back into the real world to get away from the internet because it’s so toxic nowadays

The internet of the mid-late 90s was really a place to escape the doldrums of real life. Now the internet is a fairly insane place, far worse than the real world could ever be. I can see how folks are unplugging from it.
 
Her vernacular was top tier for sure
Yea she broke down why Lupe’s album was called Lasers. It had something to do with what a Laser actually is, and that was a metaphor for what Lupe was doing in music, some intellectual shit, blew my mind

I remember, when Lupe said “we are lasers and not losers”

And it had something to do with why a laser should be called a loser, but it’s called a laser due to some kinda shit..something like that, it was dope tho
 
Shit fucked up my whole day tbh.

One thing about Kai was that she was extremely smart, fiery, and stood by men and very loyal. Watching her mom interview shit was just sad to watch her describe her wishing she had more risk assessments.

RIP to her, HORRIBLE way to go out and fuck that incel beta ass dude she was with. Niggas who try to control women physically, emotionally, and mentally is the worst.
 
Hope that ain't really Kai.

Only time I remember her mentioning her husband was saying she was a submissive and let him step out on the regular.
Yeah you can definitely tell how intelligent she was she was very pick me and bias whenever it came to pleasing men. A lot of the intelligent debates she sided with men regardless of how wrong it could be. It truly pisses me off and breaks my heart that someone prayed on her and took advantage of her loyalty and this is another solid reason why it's essential for all that controlling hotep submissive shit can be truly dangerous.
 
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