Rejecting unhealthy women

[JohnSmithCAN]

It's very hard for me to reject mentally unhealthy women in dating. They're like a drug. I have to do it if i want to find real love. When you drown in feelings for someone, you ignore red flags and signs that person is hurting you or will hurt you in the future. Unhealthy women might make you feel good now, but your feelings will disappear eventually and you'll see them for who they really are. It hurts rejecting them, but it'd hurt more breaking up with them later.

When you have what some people calls a "nurturing side" or "healing aura" , it's very difficult to discern toxic women from relativelly sane ones-- especially when the former ones are this good at impersonating the latters.

Seeking to help people, even while unconsciously done, may turns rapidly addictive.

 

[JohnSmithCAN]

I think when we don’t see enough non toxic women.....we only think toxic women are the norm.

Damn shame

Yep.