I guess my point of view is I can be a nasty nigga myself. And I've seen chicks do some nasty shit, I've been around chicks who casually talk about nasty shit.... So ultimately.... I could handle my girl telling me about some nasty shit from her past. If if I don't like it, ultimately I feel like I can get over it.
But the keeping the shit from me. And it including niggaz I considered friends. And them letting r it from me too.... That's too much dishonesty, deception, betrayal... All that.
Just be up front with me and give me the opportunity to say yay or nay. I respect openness and honesty above a lotta shit. It's just the not telling and having to find out some shit that would ultimately be my deal breaker