for a people that claim to hate white people, yall do bring them up alot.
It would be @Goldie Prince hating ass starting this thread. His tiny self wasn't doing shit to anyone.
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I think @Race Jones is correct when she says that we should be concerned with the lives and safety of all black people and that we shouldn't be using violence perpetrated by whites.
What I don't get, is why is this discussion always so one sided. This whole "I don't hate black men. I just think we need to be concerned about the safety of everyone in the black community" is disingenuous because those people only want to talk about what black men do. According to the number, black women attack their partners at a higher rate than women of other races. Do we see huge rants about how bad and violent black women are in response to that? No. The numbers say that black women are the biggest child abusers in the country. Do we see outrage against black women with regard to that the same way that we see directed towards black men for domestic violence? No, and children are far more vulnerable and innocent in child abuse cases than women are in domestic abuse cases. So are we going to acknowledge that there is a problem with blacks and the stresses that blacks encounter that manifests in unhealthy behavior in the household such as abuse? Or are we going to continue to act like black men are the only problem and demonize black men solely.
We've been down this road before. Check this discussion.
I think @Race Jones is correct when she says that we should be concerned with the lives and safety of all black people and that we shouldn't be using violence perpetrated by whites.
What I don't get, is why is this discussion always so one sided. This whole "I don't hate black men. I just think we need to be concerned about the safety of everyone in the black community" is disingenuous because those people only want to talk about what black men do. According to the number, black women attack their partners at a higher rate than women of other races. Do we see huge rants about how bad and violent black women are in response to that? No. The numbers say that black women are the biggest child abusers in the country. Do we see outrage against black women with regard to that the same way that we see directed towards black men for domestic violence? No, and children are far more vulnerable and innocent in child abuse cases than women are in domestic abuse cases. So are we going to acknowledge that there is a problem with blacks and the stresses that blacks encounter that manifests in unhealthy behavior in the household such as abuse? Or are we going to continue to act like black men are the only problem and demonize black men solely.
We've been down this road before. Check this discussion.
The thread is about prince beating a woman
all that other shit is irrelevant
We got threads on that. Threads that cover the whole community. Is men being criticized that deep? Most of us are given leeway
Maybe I misread, but from what I saw, ya'll expanded the conversation to the general danger that black men present within the black community, which is fair for discussion. I'm just saying that the discussion is almost always jaded.
Black men can be criticized. Just be fair about it. And what leeway are black men given. Whether the speakers are white racists or black feminists, black men are always treated as the worst people on earth. If we care about the black community, we do need to talk about the violence perpetrated by black men within the household. But who does it help to misrepresent that violence and the relative threat from black men?
And be real, when a thread about a black woman killing a black kid comes up, that woman is condemned, but most people that comment in the topic don't go on tirades demonizing black women in general. The handful of people that do that are usually treated like trolls. That's not the same treatment black men get.
Lol black women in general as a collective have our backs. But i get it you want the judgement not to be one sided but many women in our community have felt unsafe and disrespected openly by us. Rap been calling women bitches since the 80s. Eventually we had to expect black women to respond or harden themselves.