Part 1: Is sex really that important?

[Eartha Clit]

How important is sex to you in a relationship? How important should sex be to your s/o?
Would you be with someone who isn’t sexually on the same level as you?

Answer that first.
This is a two part thread.
Be on the look out for part 2.

 

[ChicagoFigure]

If yall dont have nothin u can still have a great sex life, as long as u are striving for something else of value in life.

Sex is important af. If me and mine arent fucking regularly something is seriously wrong.

And neither of us could have it any other way.

 

[Goldie]

It aint at the top top of the list but it's towards the top of the list.

 

[1/2]

its hugely important but it cant be everything.....years in, you have to have something else that connects you and makes you wanna be around that person or it aint gone last

I've been the one with the high drive before, and I've also been the one tired and bored cuz she wanted it too much

i think its rare that two people that are completely sexually compatible are able to make a real relationship work....most people's "best sex" stories are with people they are no longer seeing.....ever notice how the sparks fly with that person you KNOW is no good?

with that said, there's nothing wrong with one person being on a different level if its ok with both parties.....some people like teaching somebody how they like it, others aint with it.....just whatever works for ya'll

 

[OhMars]

It's pretty important.

 

[Eartha Clit]

So since y’all niggas like lists.

On a top 5 list, where does sex fall?

 

[Eartha Clit]

its hugely important but it cant be everything.....years in, you have to have something else that connects you and makes you wanna be around that person or it aint gone last

I've been the one with the high drive before, and I've also been the one tired and bored cuz she wanted it too much

i think its rare that two people that are completely sexually compatible are able to make a real relationship work....most people's "best sex" stories are with people they are no longer seeing.....ever notice how the sparks fly with that person you KNOW is no good?

with that said, there's nothing wrong with one person being on a different level if its ok with both parties.....some people like teaching somebody how they like it, others aint with it.....just whatever works for ya'll

:huh:

 

[1/2]

it looks like a rant but it aint long.....I just drag my points out my bad lol

its number 2 @Kandy

 

[Eartha Clit]

I’ll wait for more posts before part 2

 

[The Hue]

Very important, number 3 after Personality and Communication for me.

 

[Dwayne]

Yes

 

[Mister B.]

Is sex important?

I don't think a long-term relationship can function without it. It's not good if one person wants sex 4-5 times a week an the other wants it like twice a month. Someone getting cheated on.

Also, it would be nice if the couple understands sexually what each other is into. Cause what you won't do, someone else surely will.

 

[Allergens]

1.Sex is important to a relationship, it's the number one stress reliever between you two in a long term relationship. It's not as important to me personally when you two start dating.

2.To my partner I feel like it should be something she wants to do and has a desire to do..with me. But I don't expect her to be beating down the bathroom door for it when I thought nothing was gone go down that night so I'm fappin..cause that's the worse.

3..Level, ion think so..I'm into some left field shit so I'd be kinda looking at her sideways if she was open to all the shit I wanna do, to the point that she's begging for it...I mean I'd do it..but how many women wanna spit In your face while they're riding your dick cow girl style?

 

[IP360]

How important is sex to you in a relationship? How important should sex be to your s/o?
Would you be with someone who isn’t sexually on the same level as you?

Answer that first.
This is a two part thread.
Be on the look out for part 2.

Its important...but not that big of a deal.

I guess is important to her. Would have to ask her. Can say she probably got a slightly higher sex drive than me. Still meet her needs most of the time.

As far as someone not being on the same as me...it depends. Like I said it's not a big deal, doesn't me I don't enjoy it, or wanna try different things. If she just flat out uninterested, or not willing to spice things up, then naw. We can't deal.

 

[Rubato]

Good sex can help smooth out a lot of issues and prevent a lot of others from ever surfacing. It breaks the tension and keeps you close. I’ve been in a relationship where at one point we didn’t fuck for months and looking back I’ll never do it again, I’ll just leave.

 

[ChicagoFigure]

So since y’all niggas like lists.

On a top 5 list, where does sex fall?

Id say top 3 not #1

I cant commit to a chick n keep fuckin if i cant trust her or we dont get along

 

[The Mad Titan]

Its top 5 for sure. I'd probably put it right Trust, honesty and communication.

As far as being with a woman who didnt have the same drive, it would be tough unless there was a medical reason or something.

 

[DOS_patos]

1. respect
2. trust
3. mentally linked(able to hold conversations about anything)
4. sex


if i cant have all of the first 3....you just a smash. dont expect me to call until im in a drought and dont call me.

 

[Old Man Cain]

Sex is easy part of the relationship and important but not the most important part.

 

[Mister B.]

Trust
Respect
Loyalty
Sex
Love