Talking, taking away privileges, and beatings are sometimes not enough to get through to a misbehaving child.
Sometimes public shaming a child is a route taken when parents have exhausted all other avenues.
In this world of social media, you or someone else can take a picture or record a video of your child's public shaming where it has the possibility of living on the Internet forever.
A result like this can serve as a powerful reminder to that said child of what could happen if he or she gets out-of-line again.
However, one has to ask if this type of punishment is effective or harmful to a child's mental well-being?
Are you opening your child up to being teased and beat up by his or her peers which could result in more behavioral issues?
Here is an example of such course of action...
This is a great post. being positive and practicing gentle parenting isnt easy but its definitely the goal.Funny that I came across this thread since it has been a topic of discussion amongst many women I know. I don't believe in physical punishment and I definitely do not believe in publicly humiliating my child. I practice positive parenting and many people may not realize it but our words and the way we word things do determine the response we get from our children. From infancy, we have to lower our expectations because I've seen many times parents expect their infants/toddlers/children to do and react in ways that just isn't realistic especially for their age. We must speak positivity and life into our children every single day even when they mess up and starting at infancy, even when they "let us down" and if many people were more realistic of what to expect from the start, this would help.
DefinitelyThis is a great post. being positive and practicing gentle parenting isnt easy but its definitely the goal.
How old is your daughter?How you balance between gentle parenting and still being stern. Cuz i been soft on my daughter and now im paying for it.
How you balance between gentle parenting and still being stern. Cuz i been soft on my daughter and now im paying for it.
How old is your daughter?
Damn, what she out here doin?
Oh, she is only 6!She be 6 on the third. She just talk back alot and think im always playing. I dont like to hit cuz dont want my daughter to think getting hit by men is how she gets in line.
my daughter is going on 4Oh, she is only 6!
Give me an example of a time she talks back.
my daughter is going on 4
i told her today to do something and she told me to leave her alone.
I cant remember why she was mad, but it was about something
I dont like her telling me that. I dont want her to ever feel comfortable thinking she can tell me to leave her alone. Then she shouted it at me. I aint spank her or nuffin
whatcha got for me?
My 4yo gets like this and I always tell her to maintain low tones lol. It confused her and took the bass out her voice. She knows what it means now, but it was very effective the first few times I said itmy daughter is going on 4
i told her today to do something and she told me to leave her alone.
I cant remember why she was mad, but it was about something
I dont like her telling me that. I dont want her to ever feel comfortable thinking she can tell me to leave her alone. Then she shouted it at me. I aint spank her or nuffin
whatcha got for me?