Very realistic scenario but ultimately I'm a man of action and I judge things by actions. The words are just the icing but I really want the cake which is the action, the substance. As difficult as it may be I'll leave being that my feelings for her have changed as well. As I get older I'm learning that things run their course and also to appreciate the moments. I heard someone say the other day that people are in your life for a reason, a season, or a lifetime (might not be verbatim but it was something like that). So whether it's 13 days or 13 years appreciate the moments and hopefully we learned some valuable lessons along the way. It's most definitely easier said than done but if I stayed it would be a one sided relationship and I wouldn't want to do that to her or myself.
So regardless of what happens between me and the woman in the office feelings is some shit I don't really understand in the sense that the heart wants what it wants so I don't know how to pull back feelings that have already developed or are developing. I can act like it but that's all it would be at the end of the day, an act. A relationship may develop but it would have to be something mutual. If it's not mutual I lose interest.
I might not even rebound with the woman at the office either. I might just want/need some time to be single but I would leave my current relationship if the feelings between us were no longer mutual.
