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Men In The Black Community Don’t Know How To Be Faithful, Yay or Nay

Men In The Black Community Don’t Know How To Be Faithful

  • Yay.....you see how black women are built?

    Votes: 0 0.0%

  • Nay....she think her white man love her better

    Votes: 30 100.0%
  • Total voters
    30
1/2 said:
yes, aside from breaks and shit like that.....i really dont have the heart to have ongoing cheater shit happening while im really with somebody

not saying i never wanted to do it, but I dont

im not sure i understand what "actions" of hers i'd be defending
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i think the point is...you happy with who you with.
and you dont need to tell black women what they didnt do and about their flaws.
 
DirtyDusko said:
Lets talk real game for a min..1st off She's so irresponsible with her platform. Ya never see any other women of other races get "off code" & say the things black women say open & freely to the masses. The truth is she went after a white man to save her cause she doesnt meet fly & rich niggas standards & that dude prolly got her doing all kinds of fetishes & subliminal racist shit in the bedroom, which is why she REALLY mad
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i always feel ...a black chick would lose her dignity fucking with a white dude.

i could be wrong...but im motherfucking Dos. so no chance
 
the aisan chick was fucking with a white dude who did her dirty......

she talked about how dirty he was...but never mentioned his race.

why dat is?
 
DOS_patos said:
when dude said that bullshit......plenty of dudes jumped on him....but it was the ladies time to vent on that shit.
but dudes needed to get at him....an he tried to clarify what he meant. he got backlash from everyone and both sides.

plenty of times we say on here how dudes are fake for getting money an getting white or latina chicks whenh they was raised around black women...

it doesnt go unchallenged.

but would he have the nerve to say that around black men with black wives?
nah...he said that shit and backtracked. he apologized.

but i bet loni wont.
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This not the point tho lol.

Ebro, as a black man, didnt feel like black women having a problem with "a random Twitter nigga" warranted the discussion and venting about how certain black men feel comfortable enough talk sideways about us. Black women been compared to animals since the dawn of time. But we cant discuss it because he a random off twitter and we shouldnt have gave him that attention. He know damn well it wasnt the individual comment or the person being discussed, it was the sentiment and the weight that carries.

But when loni love said the dumb shit she said, his energy was not to let it go and not give it attention. It was to have a whole segment on hot97 dedicated to his feelings about a random black woman's opinion. He understood then, when it was him being attacked, that it was part of a larger conversation about how ppl view black men. See how that works?

If you dont like when random black women put negative shit out there about black men and voice your concerns about it, these same black men shouldnt be tryna tell black women what they should and shouldn't take seriously. I'm not mad at yall for being upset at loni love and her comment. The shit was stupid and reckless. But yall cant be defending yourselves over what you would trivialize black women for defending themselves over.
 
shutupGabi said:
This not the point tho lol.

Ebro, as a black man, didnt feel like black women having a problem with "a random Twitter nigga" warranted the discussion and venting about how certain black men feel comfortable enough talk sideways about us. Black women been compared to animals since the dawn of time. But we cant discuss it because he a random off twitter and we shouldnt have gave him that attention. He know damn well it wasnt the individual comment or the person being discussed, it was the sentiment and the weight that carries.

But when loni love said the dumb shit she said, his energy was not to let it go and not give it attention. It was to have a whole segment on hot97 dedicated to his feelings about a random black woman's opinion. He understood then, when it was him being attacked, that it was part of a larger conversation about how ppl view black men. See how that works?

If you dont like when random black women put negative shit out there about black men and voice your concerns about it, these same black men shouldnt be tryna tell black women what they should and shouldn't take seriously. I'm not mad at yall for being upset at loni love and her comment. The shit was stupid and reckless. But yall cant be defending yourselves over what you would trivialize black women for defending themselves over.
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i try to stand clear of those arguments unless i just want to fight which is often.

but anyone would go harder defending themselves vs defending someone else.

even tho black women need our defense at times......

case and point...let someone say some disrespectful shit to certain women here.
certain ladies command the respect and will have dudes coming to her defense.
other attack and are nasty and wont get the same type of defense because in a day or two that same chick will be attacking the defender.

its not right....but it is what it is.

also....how often do i get into shit on here for calling out a fuck nigga?
 
Whis Khalifa said:
@ChicagoFigure does your woman talk to you about what it was like dating black men?
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She's talked about her exes but never in terms of race

Would either of you defend the actions of Loni?
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IDK why she made the distinction of black men. Especially rooting it in slavery, where the white men had all the power and were fuckin/raping the female slaves even tho they were married.

Huge obvious contradiction right there.
 
ChicagoFigure said:
She's talked about her exes but never in terms of race


IDK why she made the distinction of black men. Especially rooting it in slavery, where the white men had all the power and were fuckin/raping the female slaves even tho they were married.

Huge obvious contradiction right there.
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thank you.

the fat braod...

if she would have worded it any other way...i woulda been...ok she just mad she got short arms and alot of side and cant reach her butthole so she mad.

and left it at that.

she specifically went after black men.

and @shutupGabi bette rsettle down....before i turn up the heat

im sorry please forgive me..im trynna save face. you still cool sis. i dont want no smoke.

and dont let me say it again
 
Honestly, I think a lot of chicks don't really understand why guys cheat. There really aren't that many reasons, but there are reason.

Some dudes are just snakes. They know they can't be with just one woman, but they don't want to let particular women go. A lot of women like to act like every guy that cheats is that guy. That's not really the case.

Some dudes just aren't built for monogamy or haven't reached that point in their lives. For example, if a dude loves the pussy chase as much as he loves pussy, it's going to be hard for him to be faithful. No matter how good a chick is, once she's caught, she's caught. There will be a desire she can't fulfill. Most of the time these dudes go into relationships with the best intentions but eventually fall short.

Some dudes cheat because they aren't receiving what they want at home. Sometimes what they want is unreasonable (e.g., expecting their wife that works a full time job and holds the house down to come home and act like she's a porno star by trade). Sometimes what they want is reasonable and the chick is dropping the ball.

On rare occasions a dude might cheat because he basically runs into a chick that's so great in some way or another that she's worth risking it all for.

There might be other reasons, but none of that is isolated to black men. Hell, none of it is even isolated to men. If dudes ain't romancing a chick that likes to be romanced, guess what, that chick is susceptible to being swept off her feet by some dude that is about the romancing. Humans in general are weak creatures.
 
ChicagoFigure said:
I get why u said it and in some cases u might be right.

But u did the exact same generalizing this Loni chick did.

N I know u don't give a shit either lol

But that ain't really how it works in some cases my guy
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you are right.

i am guilty.

in this case i am wrong.

i did a blanket Dos statement .

im turning over a new leaf.

my apologies ...you been cool for years. didnt mean to offend you.
 
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