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Kandycita said:
Y’all niggas can’t spare a chick you talking to a few dollars?

I’ve never asked a dude I wasn’t with for money (barely asked the men I was with for money) but my niggas come the fuck on. Everybody falls on hard times or come up short. I ain’t saying hand money over the first few days but if you and ol girl been rocking for a couple of months, if she hit you up for a small amount of money, y’all niggas ain’t giving her none?

Y’all must be broke as shit. Do y’all say this when giving money to homeless mfs?
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If it's a small amount why is she hitting me up? Also if it's a small amount then it can't be for anything important.
 
Kandycita said:
Y’all niggas can’t spare a chick you talking to a few dollars?

I’ve never asked a dude I wasn’t with for money (barely asked the men I was with for money) but my niggas come the fuck on. Everybody falls on hard times or come up short. I ain’t saying hand money over the first few days but if you and ol girl been rocking for a couple of months, if she hit you up for a small amount of money, y’all niggas ain’t giving her none?

Y’all must be broke as shit. Do y’all say this when giving money to homeless mfs?
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No, the woman has to be broke as shit. She the one with the financial issue. If i gotta be your personal atm right off the jump, i am absolutely going to reevalute if i really want you as a life partner. I am a believer in trends, if early on she banking on me to pay her bills how does that extrapolate to a bigger, more involved scenario? Right.

If she asking you for money and you only been rocking with her for a month, that’s a red flag. Period.
 
Kandycita said:
Y’all niggas can’t spare a chick you talking to a few dollars?

I’ve never asked a dude I wasn’t with for money (barely asked the men I was with for money) but my niggas come the fuck on. Everybody falls on hard times or come up short. I ain’t saying hand money over the first few days but if you and ol girl been rocking for a couple of months, if she hit you up for a small amount of money, y’all niggas ain’t giving her none?

Y’all must be broke as shit. Do y’all say this when giving money to homeless mfs?
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Would you give a man money that you're just talking to/casually dating?
 
Sage Wonder said:
Also i’m assuming we talking $200-300 type amount. I dont think anybody really give a strong fuck about $20 unless she start asking every week...
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I'm still gonna be giving side eye if you ask to borrow 20 bucks. You're so broke you dont have $20? I'm not rich by any means but it'll be a rainy day in hell before I borrowed money from someone.
 
Kandycita said:
Y’all niggas can’t spare a chick you talking to a few dollars?

I’ve never asked a dude I wasn’t with for money (barely asked the men I was with for money) but my niggas come the fuck on. Everybody falls on hard times or come up short. I ain’t saying hand money over the first few days but if you and ol girl been rocking for a couple of months, if she hit you up for a small amount of money, y’all niggas ain’t giving her none?

Y’all must be broke as shit. Do y’all say this when giving money to homeless mfs?
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So how quick would you give money to a dude you talking to?

Asking us for money too soon is just like us trying to get in the panties too soon. It sets a bad tone and leaves room to assume that's all you're trying to get.

I told a chick once, "I'll give a woman the world as long as she don't ask me for it"
 
Never.

If we are in a relationship, I got her whenever she needs help, but im not regularly paying a bill.

If we move in together, I'll take care of a bigger chunk of expenses but she will still need to contribute.

If we get married, my money is her money vice versa.

Overall, im not looking to take care of a chick. Shes supposed to be my partner not my daughter
 
Kandycita said:
Y’all niggas can’t spare a chick you talking to a few dollars?

I’ve never asked a dude I wasn’t with for money (barely asked the men I was with for money) but my niggas come the fuck on. Everybody falls on hard times or come up short. I ain’t saying hand money over the first few days but if you and ol girl been rocking for a couple of months, if she hit you up for a small amount of money, y’all niggas ain’t giving her none?

Y’all must be broke as shit. Do y’all say this when giving money to homeless mfs?
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A few things.

If we been talking for a few months, and you hit me with some real shit like your car broke down and you need a few hundred bucks to fix it, I got you.

If we talking for a few months and you ask me to regularly take care of a bill, we stop talking.

Nobody understands falling on hard times like I do. If were together and you legit fall on hard times, im gonna do whatever I can to help, financially, emotionally, help you plan etc.

But if you come through like me paying a bill or two is part of the package of us being together, we gonna stop being together.
 
If we're in a relationship and i got it shes got it, and if we're just talking then ill help as well depending on how i feel things are headed
 
Kandycita said:
can a chick you talking to ask for money and how quick are you giving?
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completely depends on how much im feeling her and how much money I got

if she seems like she has her shit together for the most part and I like her, she can get whatever (long as I aint shorting my own shit)
 
AZTG said:
A few things.

If we been talking for a few months, and you hit me with some real shit like your car broke down and you need a few hundred bucks to fix it, I got you.

If we talking for a few months and you ask me to regularly take care of a bill, we stop talking.

Nobody understands falling on hard times like I do. If were together and you legit fall on hard times, im gonna do whatever I can to help, financially, emotionally, help you plan etc.

But if you come through like me paying a bill or two is part of the package of us being together, we gonna stop being together.
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Agree!!
 
The Mad Titan said:
So how quick would you give money to a dude you talking to?

Asking us for money too soon is just like us trying to get in the panties too soon. It sets a bad tone and leaves room to assume that's all you're trying to get.

I told a chick once, "I'll give a woman the world as long as she don't ask me for it"
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He can’t ask me for anything within a damn week or two but if I’m rocking with a nigga for some months (I obviously fuck with you on some level) and his reason is legit, I’m gonna give him some money, if I’m able to.

All that, she grown blah blah. Man it’s super grown mfs out here who come up short or need assistance.
 
dasmooth1 said:
If it's a small amount why is she hitting me up? Also if it's a small amount then it can't be for anything important.
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Aint you the nigga who close to men?

You can’t ask me this.

Edit: lmaooooo wrong person.
She hitting you up because y’all talking, duh.
 
B_A said:
Nah man by a certain age you shouldn't have to be borrowing money. Youngins maybe, but older peeps? Gtfoh and get your shit* in order.
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You’ve never borrowed money as a grown woman? Ever? Like ever ever?
 
Sage Wonder said:
No, the woman has to be broke as shit. She the one with the financial issue. If i gotta be your personal atm right off the jump, i am absolutely going to reevalute if i really want you as a life partner. I am a believer in trends, if early on she banking on me to pay her bills how does that extrapolate to a bigger, more involved scenario? Right.

If she asking you for money and you only been rocking with her for a month, that’s a red flag. Period.
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I agree. That’s why i said how long.
I don’t agree with NOBODY asking for money early on but if you’ve been rocking for months and are possibly heading into a relationship, why can’t she ask.
 
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