Memphis mom accused of murder of 20 year old man in daughter’s bedroom

[AP4.0]

Older men should know better, Knock said this, I said this many of times.


Knock also said, that the teen SHOULD and NEED to know better TOO.

You wanna cut that part out. It goes both ways captain. You as a parent should teach your teens to Do Better.

Fuck is you relying on another person to do right. That's the issue,

You teach your kids not to steal, do drugs, etc, but in cases like this, it's on some "oh, my teen is too stupid to understand this area of life" I'm put it ALL on the other person to know what's right or wrong

Smh.

Yall niggas in a world of trouble.

Got it.

I'ma just post this and keep it moving when exchanges like this happen

Be blessed

 

[AP4.0]

I know it's ok.

Yall just get on God's internet and say anything.

No

That's not it at all but I'm conceding cause you are just saying anything

 

[Knock_Twice]

Man, I

Got it.

I'ma just post this and keep it moving when exchanges like this happen

Be blessed

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Very Mature. But you haven't done anything in this thread that wasn't immature, you posting a picture because you can't cut through the truth or another realistic take from folks lol

See what I be saying lol smh

Yall niggas love proving me right lol


All I'm saying is teach your teens to be aware of strangers and predators?

You do that don't you?

 

[AP4.0]

Man, I


Very Mature. But you haven't done anything in this thread that wasn't immature, you posting a picture because you can't cut through the truth or another realistic take from folks lol

See what I be saying lol smh

Yall niggas love proving me right lol

Yes

What I did was immature

See how easy that was?

 

[Knock_Twice]

Yes

What I did was immature

See how easy that was?

I get it.

I quit. I'm getting like @du I gotta stay in my lane. Control Your own Household My flock and the ones I know and love will be equipped on how to shut shit down when it comes to older men and women when and if it comes to their front door. They'll already know the game/rules

Folks run their household in their own terms

Knock control your own shit.

If niggas want their daughters and sons to be so naive to shit...Let them do them. control what you can control

 

[AP4.0]

I get it.

I quit. I'm getting like @du I gotta stay in my lane. Control Your own Household My flock and the ones I know and love will be equipped on how to shut shit down when it comes to older men and women when and if it comes to their front door. They'll already know the game/rules

Folks run their household in their own terms

Knock control your own shit.

If niggas want their daughters and sons to be so naive to shit...Let them do them. control what you can control

 

[Freeman]

I'll be that a wilding dude.

I come from the old law, yo ass got sent up north or down south when you had a child underage or was caught with an older boy and you got an ass-kicking by big mama, and the uncles handled the older dude, I'm from that cloth.

I know they wanted to do more, but they couldn't but I'm on some, in this situation, yea, both parties need to be punished.

You know better

That's my opinion

Im not for sending kids to prison for being fast lol. Some heinous shit like catching a body or raping someone sure but not for having a boy over and the mother having an ultimate crashout. Thats on the mom. We'll see whats on the ring cam but unless buddy tried to fight her she was supposed to let him leave or hold him at gunpoint and call the police. Daughter was doing too much but the mother took it further.

I know we all like to imagine we would be Liam Neeson in Taken when these situations occur but in real life there's consequences for that shit. If she likes it I love it but she's going to prison.

 

[SeaSnake]

Yall love doing this, and I know you're smart to comprehend the post.

Do you believe the daughter shouldn't face any punishment?

Do you think what the daughter did by talking to this older dude is something we as a society should just sweep under the rug? and let her just gone on and do it to the next older dude?

Or do you believe that this act that was done by the daughter and the man, should be punished?

Society feels like the older dude should ignore a child

I knew you was gonna do this

 

[Freeman]

If a 20 year goes to a girls house but needs to sneak in... that should raise flags in his head

Yall never snuck in a girl's house late or snuck a girl into your parents house at 17-21? That's regular shit. Mad girls had to do the walk of shame out of my parents house and I've had to leave a couple at 4-5am before their parents wake up.

 

[Freeman]

The Bolden

Should she be punished for this? The 13 year old.

I already said my peace on it.

Nah. Having to live with it will be enough. When she's 30 and her 13yr old starts acting up it's gonna hit her hard.

 

[Freeman]

No

That's not it at all but I'm conceding cause you are just saying anything

 

[Duwop]

Her inviting a boy over to her house at 1am is her being fast full stop. Whether they were fucking or not. They could have been playing uno for all i care. At 13 she's doing too much. Shouldn't be sneaking boys into the house at 1am at that age for any reason.

We not gonna talk about her like she has a disability tho. Unless she's literally retarded she knows right from wrong at 13. She for sure knew she wasn't supposed to be doing that sneaking bro in through the back door. She chose to make that mistake because she's being... fast. Fuck outta here with this "developed brain" talk. She did some dumb irresponsible shit. No one is blaming her for what dude was doing or what the mother did but she's not void of accountability or criticism because her bRaIn iSnT cOmPlEeTleE dEvELoPeD

Fohwtbs. Respectfully.

Does that warrant jail time?

In your opinion...

 

[Freeman]

Does that warrant jail time?

In your opinion...

Not sure who exactly you're referring to so I'll answer for everyone involved.

The 13yr old girl? Fuck no.

The mother yes. She murdered someone. Unless he attacked her and she shot him in a struggle she needs to go to prison.

The 20yr old boy depends on whether or not he knew the girl was 13 and was preying on her or if she was presenting herself to him as 18.

 

[BlackRain]

Yall never snuck in a girl's house late or snuck a girl into your parents house at 17-21? That's regular shit. Mad girls had to do the walk of shame out of my parents house and I've had to leave a couple at 4-5am before their parents wake up.

18 and up? Hell no. I could see if you said HS days but by college age the days of sneaking in and out are done for the most part. Especially in your 20s

 

[Duwop]

Not sure who exactly you're referring to so I'll answer for everyone involved.

The 13yr old girl? Fuck no.

The mother yes. She murdered someone. Unless he attacked her and she shot him in a struggle she needs to go to prison.

The 20yr old boy depends on whether or not he knew the girl was 13 and was preying on her or if she was presenting herself to him as 18.

I'm not as hard pressed as Knock, but he's not totally off.

But due to the circumstances, with Mom's going to prison, the 13 year old will still receive consequences for her actions... It may not be prison, but her life will be dramatically impacted for sending her mom to prison, and her friend to an early grave because she was tryna be sneaky and do grown up shit.

I tell my son all the time to be a child, the second he tries to do anything grown up shit with his GF, I will 100% make life extremely difficult for then to even be friends anymore. All that shit getting shut down. And I feel confident they both understand where I'm coming from and they both 15.

But I do have peers who are struggling with teens their age and younger. It's a difficult situation on the level of accountability to place on the girl...

But as things are progressing,I feel like the real life consequences that will play out for her, will be more than enough for her to realize she fucked up two lives forever

 

[Freeman]

18 and up? Hell no. I could see if you said HS days but by college age the days of sneaking in and out are done for the most part. Especially in your 20s

At 19-20 I was definitely bringing chicks home from the club and being sneaky about it. Not sure wgat to tell you but its not as outlandish as you guys are trying to make it. Its regular.

 

[mryounggun]

But due to the circumstances, with Mom's going to prison, the 13 year old will still receive consequences for her actions... It may not be prison, but her life will be dramatically impacted for sending her mom to prison, and her friend to an early grave because she was tryna be sneaky and do grown up shit.

The 13 year old sent her mom to prison'?

The 13 year old 'sent her friend to an early grave'?

The grown woman who decided to execute a man on her front porch didn't send herself to jail? It was the child that sent her to jail? The grown man who entered another person's house, in Memphis, in the middle of the night, uninvited by the homeowner, didn't send himself to an early grave. It was the child who sent him to an early grave?

Surely you don't mean that.

 

[Knock_Twice]

I'm not as hard pressed as Knock, but he's not totally off.

But due to the circumstances, with Mom's going to prison, the 13 year old will still receive consequences for her actions... It may not be prison, but her life will be dramatically impacted for sending her mom to prison, and her friend to an early grave because she was tryna be sneaky and do grown up shit.

I tell my son all the time to be a child, the second he tries to do anything grown up shit with his GF, I will 100% make life extremely difficult for then to even be friends anymore. All that shit getting shut down. And I feel confident they both understand where I'm coming from and they both 15.

But I do have peers who are struggling with teens their age and younger. It's a difficult situation on the level of accountability to place on the girl

But as things are progressing,I feel like the real life consequences that will play out for her, will be more than enough for her to realize she fucked up two lives forever

I'm hard pressed only because, we let too much shit slide and wanna coddle stupid behavior when it comes to one gender.

We wanna act as if teens are so dumb, and don't know anything

If a story comes out about anybody on this site, about their kids, etc, my 1st thought would be, "At least I know their parents laid down law"

Just by reading some of your posts, freeman, and a few others, I'll be on some "oh they get it" maybe not as pressed as me, but they understand what the fuck is going on out here.


We keep saying "The older man or woman should know better" Knock agrees, but Knock also knows that this world is sick and folks will do anything to get their fix, Niggas and Bitches are grimey, and they'll do anything to feed that monkey

My job as a parent, big uncle, bro bro, friend is to give the game as Raw as i could give it. I don't sugar coat nothing, I gotta tell MY side, "Aye, look out for the Big Bad Wolf, This is what they look like, this is how they talk, things they say or will do" Stay away from the Big Bad Wolves.

Now you know better for your own, I'm not always going to be around, but you got the game

We are expecting the Big Bad Wolves or in this case "sick grown men or women" to behave like human beings?


I don't put nothing past nobody, especially adults. I'm not relying on anybody to "know better" even myself should know better but I slip up and eat desserts

But yea,
Lock her ass up in my opinion.

 

[Duwop]

I'll keep it a buck, I was a 20 year old dude that got lied to, or well... deceived.

From my perspective, I was driving by the community college, and I saw a cute chick on the bus stop with a kid, at like 10pm on a weekday...I pulled up...and was like, you need a ride...

She came off like a chick who was in night classes while tryna raise a kid....I kicked it with her for a minute.... Until, I found out one day, from her mom, that she was actually 16.. She was at the community college tryna get her GED, cuz she dropped out, due to the kid. Shorty was 100% underage, and the was the absolute last time I reached out to her...

There was no sneaking around situation, cuz she really moved around like she was grown...well her people's let her move around like she was grown. She had me thinking she was grown.

But she wasn't. And that shit fucked me up, I think I went celibate for a year after the experience.

 

[Knock_Twice]

I'm not as hard pressed as Knock, but he's not totally off.

But due to the circumstances, with Mom's going to prison, the 13 year old will still receive consequences for her actions... It may not be prison, but her life will be dramatically impacted for sending her mom to prison, and her friend to an early grave because she was tryna be sneaky and do grown up shit.

I tell my son all the time to be a child, the second he tries to do anything grown up shit with his GF, I will 100% make life extremely difficult for then to even be friends anymore. All that shit getting shut down. And I feel confident they both understand where I'm coming from and they both 15.

But I do have peers who are struggling with teens their age and younger. It's a difficult situation on the level of accountability to place on the girl...

But as things are progressing,I feel like the real life consequences that will play out for her, will be more than enough for her to realize she fucked up two lives forever

When you were 14 or 15, did you know dealing with a older woman 18, 19, If that was the case, Did you know what you were doing? Or were you on some head in the sand wave?

If a 18 year old chick, 19 year old, stopped you in the mall, you walking with your patnas and she hits you on some, whoopy wooh while yall are in line at the register, she gives you her number,

Are you throwing the number in the trash?

This isn't a gotcha, I'm asking you, the Young Du at the age, if you knew what was happening? Just on some, if you knew what was going on at that moment she said, "let me give you my number"