@joegrine are you a libertarian?
@Miduspapa so trying to fit in you shouldn't have to change for your "brethren" find your tribe and stick with them.
I'm believe in ethnocentrism so my culture sits above everything
Too simplistic. What is my tribe? There's easily 4 groups of people I can identify with some more insular than the others. If I choose to be insular and restrict myself to my 'tribe', some folks will still accuse someone of not being willing to integrate.