I feel bad for his ex-wife. She didn't gracefully bow out and lost custody of her kids only to watch a disturbed female step in and let one of them do this whole weird chop-your-dick off phase.
I know that replaced shit hurts, but this should be a lesson to all women with kids with a man to keep that crazy in the bag for the bigger picture. Mans out here looking a whole dumbass. Hoes don't retire until they ain't pulling anymore, and even then they shooting shots until the grave. Love or hate her, G. Union can still pull. You have to be a whole dumbass not to think she ain't still in the game when he ain't around.
Find em, fuck em, and flee. It's nice to believe in fairy tales, but you have way more to lose if a mf telling you he or she is a way by "waiting to see" than you do if you just say, "Thanks for letting me know. I don't get down. Bye."