Who said anything was her fault? I don't get where you coming from with that one based on my comment
my apologies.....i got in my feelings.
quick story.
while waiting for a family member to get better after surgery.......i walked around the rehab place talking to the other patients.
they were so happy to have someone come talk to them.
one guy was just always looking like he needed a freind.
went in we talked for a bit.
every day i came i made sure to speak to him and have a convo .
then his nurse came in and we talked for a bit.
he was saying how family forgets thee the people there....come whenever and they are the forgetten family members.
i understood that....but then what hit is when i was talking to the guys brother i think.
he was telling me how dude was the king of his house, did everything for the family, the never wanted or needed anything. put kids thru college, wife stayed stuntin......then he got sick and got Alzheimers. he said his kids come maybe twice a month and the man who did everything for everyone can now not take care of himself. and often comes in and dudes crying.
shit broke my heart
like....fuck that ....leave me while i can take care of myself and ill figure it out.
dont shit on me when i cant.
so my apologies for lashing out.....
but yeah fuck dude