A lot of these entertainers; especially athletes and musicians, get showered with praise and pampered from such a young age, that they tend to lack the ability to interact with women from the standpoint of a man talking to a woman. They tend use the 'I'm a star talking to a fan/groupie' talk, using their status or money as the main alluring factor.
All they have to do is set the rules of engagement early in the relationship, have the women understand their values and principles. Give them an ultimatum at the earliest sign of transgression and be willing to back it up with action and a lot of the dysfunction will be avoided.
Thinking this way, will also allow the man to understand, unless due to self-defence, physical or verbal abuse towards a woman is destructive and counter-productive.