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Latina Schools Black Women On How To Keep A Black Man

Duwop said:
this shit has nothing to do with race, and everything with just respecting your relationship and your partner....

this misconception that black women don't appreciate black men, or black men don't appreciate black women is fucking retarded, and the people who actually buy into it gotta do some real self reflection as to why they constantly find themselves in relationships with people who clearly don't value them....

it has a lot less with what race the person is, and a lot more to what they are attracting, and what they are attracted to.....

if looks are the only criteria for a whole relationship,. don't be surprised when the rest of the shit is a crapshoot, everybody ain't compatible with everybody
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I 100% agree but I would like to add that these discussions tend to delve into "black men & black women" because despite what the internet and twitter would have you believe majority of black folks still only date other black folks...so when they complain about anything relationship related the default is going to be talking about black people because that's where their only experience lies
 
DOS_patos said:
true.....but i also think that our women have to understand where the black men are in society.


yes, it is hard for our women but its also hard for our men.


women have so much support to be great at anything......what do our young men have? what do our young men hear about themselves?


this should be its own topic.
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If ALL the black women you’ve dated or approached have issues then maybe you’re the problem.

That whole “what you won’t do, another will” BULLSHIT is sad because it’s really saying “what black women wont do, another race will”. See how weird and pathetic that sounds? You pick 5 Black women you aren’t compatible with and it doesn’t work out so the first thoughts you have are that BLACK women as a whole don’t do XYZ, so now you are going to date outside of your race? Lmao.



Date outside of your race because you are attracted to someone of another race, leave Black women out of it because really some of you mfs sound just like the bitter black women ya’ll speak of.
 
Meeks said:
Date outside of your race because you are attracted to someone of another race, leave Black women out of it because really some of you mfs sound just like the bitter black women ya’ll speak of.
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Bazinga
 
BlackRain said:
I 100% agree but I would like to add that these discussions tend to delve into "black men & black women" because despite what the internet and twitter would have you believe majority of black folks still only date other black folks...so when they complain about anything relationship related the default is going to be talking about black people because that's where their only experience lies
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i'm glad you said this.....

cuz i was thinking the exact same thing,

i ain't sure of the numbers but i'm fairly certain that a large majority of black people only date black people.


and I'm aldo fairly certain, that if they ever did date outside their race, it wasn't even close to as many people of their own race they've dated....

i ain't saying it's 100%, cuz obviously there are exceptions... but as a whole... like all black peoples dating habits, i'm sure its high as fuck...


so ultimately that has to mean, the blacks who EXCLUSIVELY date outside their race are very very low in percentages compared to black people as a whole....men and women.....


so we really making the most out of the least...
 
BlackRain said:
I 100% agree but I would like to add that these discussions tend to delve into "black men & black women" because despite what the internet and twitter would have you believe majority of black folks still only date other black folks...so when they complain about anything relationship related the default is going to be talking about black people because that's where their only experience lies
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I and others stated the exact same thing earlier in this thread that most races in general date their own race. It's a FACT. Lol.
 
Meeks said:
If ALL the black women you’ve dated or approached have issues then maybe you’re the problem.

That whole “what you won’t do, another will” BULLSHIT is sad because it’s really saying “what black women wont do, another race will”. See how weird and pathetic that sounds? You pick 5 Black women you aren’t compatible with and it doesn’t work out so the first thoughts you have are that BLACK women as a whole don’t do XYZ, so now you are going to date outside of your race? Lmao.

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Date outside of your race because you are attracted to someone of another race, leave Black women out of it because really some of you mfs sound just like the bitter black women ya’ll speak of.
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But no one is talking about dating outside the race. Black women get love worldwide. The majority of the problems that we constantly hear about are social issues that seem to only effect black AMERICAN women. This constant desire to disrespect, undermine and belittle the black man doesn't seem to exist in any other part of the African diaspora except here.

Black AMERICAN women have been used as pawns to tear down their brothers and fatherd for the past 30 years or so and they have gladly accepted that role. Feminism was a trick. When white women started that shit back in the 60s your black ass wasn't included. But your silly asses tried to jump onboard with some shit that was never meant to benefit you in the first place. What y'all thought was feminism ended up being nothing more than another ploy to target and attack the black men while ruining the black family. Black AMERICAN women dove head first into this bullshit and black families from coast to coast have suffered. We used to stick together and fight as a unit but white folks and feminist tricked y'all into hating us. And with no hesitation an entire generation of black AMERICAN women went along with the bullshit. Now the same people who told you to hate your brothers and fathers are now pushing homosexuality on your daugthers and y'all are going along with that bullshit to. And even after being tricked and conned into that feminism bullshit and seeing the damage that has been black AMERICAN women are still listening to these same people. And guess what the white feminist who y'all choose to follow still don't give a fuck about you or your families. Where were they when Sandra Bland was hanging in that jail cell???

The point is you don't see this type of bullshit in other parts of the diaspora and you see it less frequently outside the race. The problem isn't black women. The problem in my opinion seems to be black AMERICAN women and the society that created them.

The race war that started on the continent never ended here in the states. They declared war on us centuries ago and that war has never stopped. The latest and perhaps the most effective weapon they have deployed against us is our women. That wasn't the case until relatively recently. We were our greatest protectors and defenders. Now in many instances black AMERICAN women have become our greatest enemies. You can control the future by controlling women and the babies/families they produce.

Black AMERICAN women have been duped into waging war against their fathers and brothers and they don't even realize it. This does not exist in any other part of the diaspora and you'll be hard pressed to find it at this scale in any other race. Black women from elsewhere and women outside of the race are benefiting from everything that black AMERICAN women have taken for granted. And it's no one's fault but your own. You can't be mad at other women who see the greatness in the men that you choose to reject.
 
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SKPJR said:
But no one is talking about dating outside the race. Black women get love worldwide. The majority of the problems that we constantly hear about are social issues that seem to only effect black AMERICAN women. This constant desire to disrespect, undermine and belittle the black man doesn't seem to exist in any other part of the African diaspora except here.

Black AMERICAN women have been used as pawns to tear down their brothers and fatherd for the past 30 years or so and they have gladly accepted that role. Feminism was a trick. When white women started that shit back in the 60s your black ass wasn't included. But your silly asses tried to jump onboard with some shit that was never meant to benefit you in the first place. What y'all thought was feminism ended up being nothing more than another ploy to target and attack the black men while ruining the black family. Black AMERICAN women dove head first into this bullshit and black families from coast to coast have suffered. We used to stick together and fight as a unit but white folks and feminist tricked y'all into hating us. And with no hesitation an entire generation of black AMERICAN women went along with the bullshit. Now the same people who told you to hate your brothers and fathers are now pushing homosexuality on your daugthers and y'all are going along with that bullshit to. And even after being tricked and conned into that feminism bullshit and seeing the damage that has been black AMERICAN women are still listening to these same people. And guess what the white feminist who y'all choose to follow still don't give a fuck about you or your families. Where were they when Sandra Bland was hanging in that jail cell???

The point is you don't see this type of bullshit in other parts of the diaspora and you see it less frequently outside the race. The problem isn't black women. The problem in my opinion seems to be black AMERICAN women and the society that created them. The race war that started on the continent never ended here in the states. They declared war on us centuries ago and that war has never stopped. The latest and perhaps the most effective weapon they have deployed against us is our women. That wasn't the case until relatively recently. We were our greatest protectors and defenders. Now in many instances black AMERICAN women have become our greatest enemies. You can control the future be controlling women and the babies/families they produce. Black AMERICAN women have been duped into waging war against their fathers and brothers and they don't even realize it. This does not exist in any other part of the diaspora and you'll be hard pressed to find it at this scale in any other race. Black women from elsewhere and women outside of the race are benefiting from everything that black AMERICAN women have taken for granted. And it's no one's fault but your own. You can't be mad because other women so the greatness in the brothers that you choose to reject.
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I’m not reading all of this. I stopped at “Black AMERICAN women”. What you won’t do is stereotype all Black American women.

End of discussion.
 
If the shoe fits, put on a sock and wear it because I said what I said.

I wouldn’t care if you dated a first generation horse.
 
Would you stop being an aggressive black American woman if we use the word majority? As an observer the majority of y’all that I’ve talked to disrespect y’all mans frequently
 
Meeks said:
I’m not reading all of this. I stopped at “Black AMERICAN women”. What you won’t do is stereotype all Black American women.

End of discussion.
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Reading is the eternal enemy of ignorance. You want to hide something from a nigga put it in a book.
 
When you GENERALIZE, this is the response you get.

I’m being myself, I just so happen to be a Black woman.

Also, I actually enjoy reading. I’m in a group just for black women who love to read.
I’m not a “nigga” though because that would mean I’m ignorant and I’m far from it.

Anything else?

One thing I will say about ABW is that these posts sure bring out the “bitter ass nigga” brigade.
 
SKPJR said:
SMH at ppl thinking black women automatically equals black AMERICAN women. My homie married a Brazilian woman. Anyone who knows anything about the African diaspora knows that the majority of Africans stolen from the motherland were taken to Brazil. The homie has a black woman and is happy as hell. He just doesn't have an AMERICAN black woman.

Planet Earth is a huge place and women of color, particularly black women, are everywhere. Get a passport and see for yourself. From the south Pacific to South America and Australia to the Antilles you can find beautiful black women all over this planet. My personal favorite is east African and carribean women.

The point is good black men don't have to stay on the plantation and constantly find themselves dealing with plantation minded women. Waiting To Exhale, all that coonish and buffoonish Tyler Perry bullshit and the devil's paradise, aka church, has fucked up an entire generation of black American women. Y'all thought that shit was cute especially when white amerikkka found yet another way to shit on black men and further divide our people. Now the game has changed and good brothers who can't find love and respect at home are seeing just how easy it is to find it elsewhere.

So keep talking down and disrespecting the original man. Just realize that there is another woman out there who will gladly do everything that you won't. Y'all seem to have forgotten who we are but the rest of the world knows better. Your loss is the world's gain. One of these days y'all will figure that shit out.
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Damn nigga nice way to shit on your ethnicity tho. Let’s be real if a person can’t build a life within their own group to the point where they are aggressively looking outside their group then 9 times out of 10 they got some issue.

That’s different from just falling for an African chick or Dominican or Haitian. But when niggas who are fully Americanized say they can’t deal with Americanized women they probably want a woman who don’t talk back won’t challenge anything and etc and they stereotype those other groups too “latinas are feisty” “Asians are docile”
 
Meeks said:
When you GENERALIZE, this is the response you get.

I’m being myself, I just so happen to be a Black woman.

Also, I actually enjoy reading. I’m in a group just for black women who love to read.
I’m not a “nigga” though because that would mean I’m ignorant and I’m far from it.

Anything else?

One thing I will say about ABW is that these posts sure bring out the “bitter ass nigga” brigade.
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Lol at being in a book club but not being to read a 5 paragraph post. Lol at being mad at other women for appreciating your men and being even more mad at the men for appreciated. Lol at not wanting to be a stereotype but being the stereotypical mad sassy ass black woman. Lol at black women loving all that Madea bullshit and not realizing that it's a caricature of your mad asses. Gtfohwtbs

Why are you so mad at women who love brothers that the majority of you seem to hate? If black men are dogs as so many of our black AMERICAN sisters seem to think why do care if we find love elsewhere? Why are you so angry about that?
 
SKPJR said:
SMH at ppl thinking black women automatically equals black AMERICAN women. My homie married a Brazilian woman. Anyone who knows anything about the African diaspora knows that the majority of Africans stolen from the motherland were taken to Brazil. The homie has a black woman and is happy as hell. He just doesn't have an AMERICAN black woman.

Planet Earth is a huge place and women of color, particularly black women, are everywhere. Get a passport and see for yourself. From the south Pacific to South America and Australia to the Antilles you can find beautiful black women all over this planet. My personal favorite is east African and carribean women.

The point is good black men don't have to stay on the plantation and constantly find themselves dealing with plantation minded women. Waiting To Exhale, all that coonish and buffoonish Tyler Perry bullshit and the devil's paradise, aka church, has fucked up an entire generation of black American women. Y'all thought that shit was cute especially when white amerikkka found yet another way to shit on black men and further divide our people. Now the game has changed and good brothers who can't find love and respect at home are seeing just how easy it is to find it elsewhere.

So keep talking down and disrespecting the original man. Just realize that there is another woman out there who will gladly do everything that you won't. Y'all seem to have forgotten who we are but the rest of the world knows better. Your loss is the world's gain. One of these days y'all will figure that shit out.
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Woah you blamed the church? Aren’t majority of diaspora black people Christians?
 
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