bruh, it's not that i WANT another man spending time with my kids.....that's what you're projecting into the situation....no where did i say i was pushing my kid on the dude, or that it was my idea that the kid goWhat are you talkin about nigga? lol It's about the kids spending time together? They live with eachother 95% of the fuckin month.
"he might be taking em to the zoo" .......... U need another nigga to take your kids to the zoo? U can't do that yourself?
So it aint about quality time with their siblings cuz they're always with the siblings. It aint about getting to go places cuz you can take em yourself. So why do you want another man with your child soooo bad?
What's really going on fam? Make sense of this shit.
a family member of the children is literally asking is it okay if my kid comes with them when they pick up the other kids that also live in my house....
unless there was some preexisting circumstance that influenced my judgement, i wouldn't have a problem.
if my wife called me right now and said "Hey D my brother is taking all the kids ice skating or some shit.. you care if ur son goes"
i'm gonna be like that's cool...it's family....
they all doing something fun together....why not?
it just so happens the family in this situation is the other kids dad.. but it's still family....and it's still family that regularly interacts with the children in my house...so i don't see where the issue is