Sounds like a case of wack dih to me.
A man that's putting it down typically knows his value and wouldn't be wasting his time on someone who isn't interested.
Dude reeks of 'i just need female companionship' based off the op.
She's wrong continuing to accept his tricking off knowing what he wants and she doesn't really want him.
But he's allowing it to happen to himself. So I don't feel bad for him.
I just hope he finds balance before he hits an extreme and turns into one of these HOH ass niggas from being hurt too many times.