4-6 I believe it should be a balance but it really depends on my mood. Sometimes I want/need that company and some days I just want to be left alone. I guess my significant other has to know me well enough to figure out what kind of day it is so he can move accordingly.
5, it's about balance. Not too much, not too little. I'm affectionate enough to enjoy our quality time, but independent enough to equally enjoy the time we spend apart.
On a scale of 1-10 how much attention do you need from your significant other? Why that number?
This is funny, my wife is a Gemini like you. Ima Capricorn, caps like for everything we do, to have some practical reason for it. We want to gain something substantive from whatever we do, otherwise why do it.5-7.
I like to talk. I like to play. I like to laugh. I also have my days where I just wanna be left alone.
I just want the nigga in my presence even if we ain’t doing shit.
Y'all crazy asses
I can’t speak for your wife but I love deep conversations. I also love to create memories and do things that’s meaningful as well. However, I don’t need to do that 24/7. Sometimes my dudes* presence is enough.This is funny, my wife is a Gemini like you. Ima Capricorn, caps like for everything we do, to have some practical reason for it. We want to gain something substantive from whatever we do, otherwise why do it.
So when it comes to my wife, when we spend quality time together, I wanna have deep convos we can leave feeling like we gained insight. I wanna do things together that we can enjoy and remember. You know, a reason for doing shit.
We have convos and she day dreams while I talk and jumps from subject to subject while she talks. We do shit and she obsesses over small irritations of things that arent actually effecting her in any way.
But she will tell me, she loves when we talk, or she had fun on the trip. And I used to be like, HOW?!!..u dont listen to me, and you complain the whole trip!!
like... you just wanna be around me just to be around me..
and that pissed me off cause it seemed like it's some pointless shit to do, I felt unappreciated, I didnt get it..
I do now tho
nothing wrong with being single, u forgot how peaceful it is to not have to consider the feelings of another adult after u get in a relationshipI can’t speak for your wife but I love deep conversations. I also love to create memories and do things that’s meaningful as well. However, I don’t need to do that 24/7. Sometimes my dudes* presence is enough.
*im single af tho
I ain’t forget nothing. I love being single.nothing wrong with being single, u forgot how peaceful it is to not have to consider the feelings of another adult after u get in a relationship