both yall can be right.
both sides can and should be respected.
the problem is the fact yall both right but someone wants to be right(er)
why cant a black man want his people to do better? and be better?
why cant a black man try to understand someones point about being better?
sometimes you cant see how big the fire is if you still in the fire. so should it be ok to listen to a black man who is not in the fire about how big the fire is and how you can get out the fire?
this shit is the allegory of the cave hood version type shit.