Yall dont see how mans is tripping though? Im not saying he should let her move in. I already said I would only cause times is fucked up right now. But I aint mad at him for saying no.
Im just saying dude really expects to tell her no, offer to loan her $300 which is really the same as 0 in this case, then gets shocked she wanna break up.
Dude really lacking a level of social awareness.
Im cool with him saying no then relationship ends, but saying no after she asked and thinking everything should be as is while she getting evicted is wild to me.
shit...you mean once you find panties in your laundry basket or makeup "left" on your dresser.Once that overnight bag become a drawer in your dresser, y'all go together nigga
totally agree...we dont know enough about this situation.If you move a chick in after 6 months on some " she on hard times shit" she not going anywhere after that
Who is going to say," well, I guess it's time for me to stop paying a portion of the bills/rent and go back to struggling and paying everything on my own and get my own place again"
The fact she has no one in her family to ask that same question could be very telling
Ofc it's a case my case basis but there are more chicks that are the rule than there are the exception
Hell, keeping it a buck, most people still juggling at least one to two other people during the first 6 months and you really gonna put all that on hold for a chick you practically don't know all that well?
The fact she has no one in her family to ask that same question could be very telling
it can be many reasons for that.....Can niggas stop addin' this sauce
No because it's relevant to the discussionCan niggas stop addin' this sauce
Like I said, there are legit exceptions but most people, I'm not gonna limit it to females but most people are the rule and not the exception in this casetotally agree...we dont know enough about this situation.
what if dude 8 months prior to the start of this.....dude girl left him and tore up his place on her way out? so he supposed to forget that?
we cant act like people aint got their reasons for shit outside of just being selfish or an aint shit dude.
but i mean her family might not be shit and so she rather go for someone who acts like he loves her.....
i can see it from a few ways.
its not simple and cut and dry.
Can niggas stop addin' this sauce
maybe.No because it's relevant to the discussion
If you're a big family guy and she's estranged from hers, that could present issues later on down the line
What part of exception don't you understand bmaybe.
she could also want to be apart of the family and act accordingly.
or could try to hate on his relationship
all depends on the chick.
What part of exception don't you understand b
im just being balanced....Stop trying to disagree with me when you agree with me
No because it's relevant to the discussion
If you're a big family guy and she's estranged from hers, that could present issues later on down the line
This is red flag territory
Niggas always talking about the signs was there we just ignored them.
So don’t ignore it
It's really not.
It could be, sure. But then so could a lotta things. Almost anything really, if you're so minded
Unstable family relationship is huge red flag.
The numbers will show that.
But, do you bruh