Naw, you don’t just go telling kids stuff like that.
If they ask, then tell them.. but only when they are old enough to understand.
And even then, some times still no.
Just to throw a personal story out there…
Some months after my parents split up, we moved out of my childhood home and into some apartments. At the time, we (kids) just saw it as we were finally moving to a “better” neighborhood.
I put better in quotations because Watts -> Inglewood is a marginal improvement. Still a lot of the same issues, but that home in Watts we live next door to a literal trap house. I’m talkin smokers and fiends lined up behind the garage, police raids with shotguns and helicopters and all that.
So even though we went from house to apartment, it felt like an upgrade. Now with my big adult brain I understand what really happened. Single father with 4 kids, and also often times helping take care of other neighborhood kids, pops couldn’t afford that mortgage. He lost that house.
He told us, many years later that we were about to be homeless… like in a matter of a few days. Pops caught a break, and convinced whoever this landlord was to let us get in without that deposit.
I was just starting 6th grade at the time, and I had friends who had been in that kind of situation and I saw the effect it had on them. Old enough to understand the situation but too young to do anything to help. That’s some heavy shit to put on a kid.
I seen the path that put some of my friends o…, a path I tried to get on later, but for me it was just trying to be cool… for them it was literal life and death.
Pops just went to work, did mad OT, and did what he had to do and shielded us from that stress… and it allowed me to just be a preteen kid who was into basketball, video games and girls, instead of worrying about the next meal or if we would be on the street.
Never knew how close to catastrophe we were, for them next few years, while he got right. And I thank him for that.
We didn’t NEED to know all the details, so long as he took care of business.