OPINION Friends of the opposite sex and S/O

Remedy said:
Its not ok for him to encourage me and her to become close, then when we do get mad when she calls him out for doing me dirty. He created this.
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I agree. But let’s switch it a little. How would people feel if the new friends were of the opposite sex. If a guy took his boys woman side and then became friends with the woman. I am not saying a friend shouldn’t become friends with each other’s s/o but I think it should be navigated carefully.
 
Judge Dread said:
I agree. But let’s switch it a little. How would people feel if the new friends were of the opposite sex. If a guy took his boys woman side and then became friends with the woman. I am not saying a friend shouldn’t become friends with each other’s s/o but I think it should be navigated carefully.
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Right is right. Wrong is wrong. I don’t think it should matter what the sex is. If you pretty much forced a friendship on us, you can’t be mad that we cool.
 
Also , he put @Blactivity in a bad position. If they were really cool she knew he may have been a little messed up. Now he is with someone she likes so his messed up ness is somehow worse because it was you. That is tough.
 
Judge Dread said:
Also , he put @Blactivity in a bad position. If they were really cool she knew he may have been a little messed up. Now he is with someone she likes so his messed up ness is somehow worse because it was you. That is tough.
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I didn't even wanna be friends, just cool. And Remedy didn't even like me at first. She told him (my bestfriend) I was stank, mean, and stuck up...she still says that, but still. That bih ain't like me.:foh3:
 
@Remedy

When did you hear about @Blactivity being a friend of your dude? after yall started dating or before?

Also what made you reach out to her? what prompt'd the call
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Blactivity said:
I was his friend first, but I am allowed to call my friend out if they're wrong. That's what I did and he got mad lol.
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I understand that, and could totally see that happening...no judgement
 
Judge Dread said:
See this is a messed up position and why I tell everyone don’t put my name in their craziness. @Blactivity were you conflicted wit being used like that ?
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Yes. I wanted to hide from them.
I never told either one that the other one had spoken to me about a conflict they had with the other. I tried to stay neutral or de-esculate the situation.
I might have even disappeared on the both of them a few times. Wouldn't show up at certain times...didn't answer the phone...lmao.
 
Blactivity said:
Yes. I wanted to hide from them.
I never told either one that the other one had spoken to me about a conflict they had with the other. I tried to stay neutral or de-esculate the situation.
I might have even disappeared on the both of them a few times. Wouldn't show up at certain times...didn't answer the phone...lmao.
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That’s a sucky situation to be in.
 
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