Lyfe Jennings on fatherhood
I reupped. LeBron brings in numbers my GI doubt that kid even understands what she even saying tho... plus thread looking sick b
The fact you can admit that and understand your dad is a good thing tho.I think many young men are starting to realize the lies their moms told about their dads.
My dad raised me and was one of the few men receiving child support.
I remember the days he would talk to me about women when he was drunk and high.
Like 5 hour lectures man. Telling me what to expect and what to avoid. I was lucky to get all that fatherly advice because i knew many young black men didn't have a father.
Im pushing 40 now and still single with no kids. I think i was too cautious to a fault. As i see my peers with families and kids going to college i wish i wouldve started early. Ive been in a lot of relationships and i can say that at least 3 of em, i messed up. They were really good women i couldve had a family with that really loved me.
Man listen.
Two of my coworkers told me hellish stories that speaks to how fucked the family courts are.
Co worker 1 ended up being forced to pay cs for a kid that wasnt his...i mean garnishing wages...taking his tax return...he went to court several times...judge told him “feed him till he looks like you” finally when the kid turned 18 he had a real man to man...basically told my coworker his mom had been telling him that my coworker was his dad etc...they did a blood test...99.9% chance hes not the father. The courts (Alabama) stopped the garnishments...but he aint getting none of his money back.
Sucks on two fronts...my coworker got jerked out of thousands AND homie moms been lying to him his whole life...
GODDAMN ....
I reupped. LeBron brings in numbers my G
Man listen.
Two of my coworkers told me hellish stories that speaks to how fucked the family courts are.
Co worker 1 ended up being forced to pay cs for a kid that wasnt his...i mean garnishing wages...taking his tax return...he went to court several times...judge told him “feed him till he looks like you” finally when the kid turned 18 he had a real man to man...basically told my coworker his mom had been telling him that my coworker was his dad etc...they did a blood test...99.9% chance hes not the father. The courts (Alabama) stopped the garnishments...but he aint getting none of his money back.
Sucks on two fronts...my coworker got jerked out of thousands AND homie moms been lying to him his whole life...
Coworker 2:
His BM just upped and dipped and moved to NJ with his son. Bitch was ghost for 2 yrs. No contact. Homie was still paying child support. But the checks were coming back because noone lived at last known address. His BM finally shows back up...to take him to court for cs he “wasnt paying”
So now the state starts to garnish his wages...he has record of paying thru his employer...the checks are sent certified mail so someone has to sign for em. Come to find out DHR was holding the checks...
So they get to court...and judge locks him up and sets bail to the last 6mos worth of child support to the penny...day afte he gets locked up...those “missing checks” somehow are magically cashed....AND homie gotta hit with back pay...
So this woman...basically kidnaps the kid for like two years...comes back...takes buddy to court for money he was paying...then purposly gets DHR to hold checks...for the sole purpose of getting hom put in jail....AND still gets all that money....
I don't need women's validation on the topic of fatherhood, sir.Not one woman's response in this thread neither
Why he aint get the test earlier?
So how did DHS falloff that bad? Thats nuts. Like her payments wernt linked to a social security or something
I often try to hell people get their kids....Its all set up to get that money man. The DHR agent on his case was buddies with the judge...
That shit is wild bruh
Had me speechless while he was telling me his story
I don't need women's validation on the topic of fatherhood, sir.