Fragile Masculinity In The Black Community

[Joshie Kahn]

I always feel bad about talking to race and josh about deep shit

Like I'm corrupting their view of the world.....

I know y'all be thinking about shit later.... Like. "Du can't be right...... He just can't be"

Tbh, it's not even like that at all, I'm usually just thinking about what led and continues to fuel those beliefs. Like outside of anecdotes there's no concrete proof of the claims.

Why people like to bring up the "real world" in opposition to "progressive" views or beliefs is strange to me. Guess I must be living in mario world or something.............

 

[Race Jones]

Tbh, it's not even like that at all, I'm usually just thinking about what led and continues to fuel those beliefs. Like outside of anecdotes there's no concrete proof of the claims.

Why people like to bring up the "real world" in opposition to "progressive" views or beliefs is strange to me. Guess I must be living in mario world or something.............

Same

@King Du views are dated.

 

[Goldie]

^^^ Bad example


Plenty of those action films have men using violence as a means to get revenge, which stems from....you guessed it, emotions. Plus, those are movies which is an industry dominated and run by men. That makes your point moot.

Ion see why yall are so adamant that women are more emotional than men, there's just so verifiable proof of that. Men and women are human beings, humans have feelings, they display those feelings in a myriad of ways, the notion that one gender is more rational or less emotional than the other is goofy.

We're talking semantics I see. When most talk about being "emotional" we're talking about crying, saying how bad their feelings were hurt, etc. Not about dudes who had money stolen from them and beat the nigga up, yes ofc, that's an emotion of anger, but you know damn well that's not what we're talkin about.

 

[Race Jones]

We're talking semantics I see. When most talk about being "emotional" we're talking about crying, saying how bad their feelings were hurt, etc. Not about dudes who had money stolen from them and beat the nigga up, yes ofc, that's an emotion of anger, but you know damn well that's not what we're talkin about.

and you know damn well thats not what hes talking about lmao

 

[Golden]

Trini been extra scrappy lately....

Whassup luv?
Errething OK??

you see, all my e-life I had to fight...

It's always towards Goldie.

that nigga is the Schmeling to my Louis.

 

[Race Jones]

Lmaoo lord yall are being willfully obtuse when in all honesty everything Josh said was logical and unbiased.

 

[Goldie]

Lmaoo lord yall are being willfully obtuse when in all honesty everything Josh said was logical and unbiased.

1. get off his dick.

2. Again, yes ofc, we all have emotions. But when most say "you're being emotional" we're talkin about crying sensitive mfs, which is something women are way more than men. #Fax

 

[Joshie Kahn]

We're talking semantics I see. When most talk about being "emotional" we're talking about crying, saying how bad their feelings were hurt, etc. Not about dudes who had money stolen from them and beat the nigga up, yes ofc, that's an emotion of anger, but you know damn well that's not what we're talkin about.

:word?:

Yall got a narrow ass view of what emotional means then, that's on yall not me. Everything I said was valid, a women crying because she got cheated aint any different from a man going on a rampage cus somebody ran off with his work.

 

[Goldie]

:word?:

Yall got a narrow ass view of what emotional means then, that's on yall not me. Everything I said was valid, a women crying because she got cheated aint any different from a man going on a rampage cus somebody ran off with his work.

Again with the semantics. You know that's not what mfs are talking about when people say "you're being emotional", but ok lol

 

[Joshie Kahn]

Again with the semantics. You know that's not what mfs are talking about when people say "you're being emotional", but ok lol

Fam, I'm not arguing semantics, I know exactly what you mean. I'm saying yall have a narrow view of what "acting emotional" means because of what yall consider "acting emotional"

Just because a mf got dry eyes while they putting a bullet in somebodies head for whatever reason, doesn't mean that they're not "acting emotional".

 

[Duwop]

Tbh, it's not even like that at all, I'm usually just thinking about what led and continues to fuel those beliefs. Like outside of anecdotes there's no concrete proof of the claims.

Why people like to bring up the "real world" in opposition to "progressive" views or beliefs is strange to me. Guess I must be living in mario world or something.............

Same

@King Du views are dated.

Y'all full of shit....
:gtfoh:

Life comprehension....

Its like reading comprehension.... You can read facts and data and evidence all day.... But what does it mean? How do you apply it? Explain it to me in your words.


I feel like I've not only lived, but I comprehended my life experiences...

Its not what presented, its what it means to me.... I present a point of view based on my understanding.

I find it funny to hear it called dated, cuz its very reactive to the world as it is presented.

So dont blame me.... Blame society


I'm just a product of my environment:gtfoh:

 

[Goldie]

Fam, I'm not arguing semantics, I know exactly what you mean. I'm saying yall have a narrow view of what "acting emotional" means because of what yall consider "acting emotional"

Just because a mf got dry eyes while they putting a bullet in somebodies head for whatever reason, doesn't mean that they're not "acting emotional".

What about sociopaths who have no emotion who kill people, does that still count?

 

[Race Jones]

1. get off his dick.

2. Again, yes ofc, we all have emotions. But when most say "you're being emotional" we're talkin about crying sensitive mfs, which is something women are way more than men. #Fax

oh shut up

 

[Race Jones]

You niggas are hell

 

[Joshie Kahn]

What about sociopaths who have no emotion who kill people, does that still count?

We talking avg everyday people goldie, but to answer your question, it depends. Are they killing people for the fun of it or for some other reason?

 

[Joshie Kahn]

So dont blame me.... Blame society

You wanna be CJ from gta so bad

 

[Goldie]

We talking avg everyday people goldie, but to answer your question, it depends. Are they killing people for the fun of it or for some other reason?

He just wanted the shirt homie had on.

 

[Joshie Kahn]

He just wanted the shirt homie had on.

That's a cold mf then..........but maybe he thought that ralph you had on was fire and he just had to have it. One could say he lusted after the shirt.

 

[Golden]

Again with the semantics. You know that's not what mfs are talking about when people say "you're being emotional", but ok lol

but why isnt it included? u r right that it isnt what comes to mind when people think of emotional, but why do you think the reason for that is?

being excessively prone to anger n excessively prone to fearfulness r both "being emotional". only one is seen as emotional because its associated with women, n thus men's emotionalness is normalized while ours is used to characterize us as inherently less rational.

 

[Goldie]

That's a cold mf then..........but maybe he thought that ralph you had on was fire and he just had to have it. One could say he lusted after the shirt.

lmaoooo this fuckin guy