Fragile Masculinity In The Black Community

[Allergens]

Why u keep making this about me?

 

[Golden]

I agree with this 100%


I actually wrote a thread about this on twitter

i never understood how men cld say that women r more emotional or somehow illogical, when men notoriously put their feelings before their rationality like this:

http://ablackweb.com/forum/index.ph...loyee-lifting-a-13-year-old-by-the-neck.1287/
http://ablackweb.com/forum/index.php?threads/anthony-weiner-pleads-guilty-to-“sexting”-with-15-year-old-wife-files-for-divorce.1284/
http://ablackweb.com/forum/index.ph...-shooting-on-facebook-live-in-cleveland.1086/

extreme examples but it happens. they feel some kinda way n suddenly dgaf bout their jobs, reputations or other ppl.

 

[Goldie]

i never understood how men cld say that women r more emotional or somehow illogical, when men notoriously put their feelings before their rationality like this:

http://ablackweb.com/forum/index.ph...loyee-lifting-a-13-year-old-by-the-neck.1287/
http://ablackweb.com/forum/index.php?threads/anthony-weiner-pleads-guilty-to-“sexting”-with-15-year-old-wife-files-for-divorce.1284/
http://ablackweb.com/forum/index.ph...-shooting-on-facebook-live-in-cleveland.1086/

extreme examples but it happens. they feel some kinda way n suddenly dgaf bout their jobs, reputations or other ppl.

So women aren't more emotional?

 

[Duwop]

he tryna rationalize his attraction to transwomen.

He was trying to rationalize why women aren't attractive one day too.

I think he's having issues at home and wants to find blame in the way the universe is set up....

This guy is hilarious. Nothing is his fault and he always has a ridiculous reason why, that makes sense to no one but him and this chick named mizury

 

[Golden]

So women aren't more emotional?

you read that right.

He was trying to rationalize why women aren't attractive one day too.

I think he's having issues at home and wants to find blame in the way the universe is set up....

This guy is hilarious. Nothing is his fault and he always has a ridiculous reason why, that makes sense to no one but him and this chick named mizury

are they friends? he and this mizury woman

 

[Duwop]

I dunno, I'm to sober for all this Wierd shit....

This thread is hilarious though

 

[Goldie]

you read that right.

are they friends? he and this mizury woman

Just like when u said you've never been jealous before? Why do I always have to check ur ass?

I know you're on ur feminist/independent woman shit, but you try too hard to pretend women are above any type of stereotype, some are bullshit and some are accurate.

 

[Golden]

Just like when u said you've never been jealous before? Why do I always have to check ur ass?

I know you're on ur feminist/independent woman shit, but you try too hard to pretend women are above any type of stereotype, some are bullshit and some are accurate.

Edit: misread. I disagree with you on this stereotype being accurate.

and please. you didn't check my ass on shit. In that thread, I can pull up a quote where I specifically say "I guess I am jealous then." after other members presented different POVs on what it means to be jealous.

 

[Goldie]

where did I say that women are emotional but I, BNE, am not? you're making this individual when I thought we were speaking generally.

Re-read what I wrote, I never said that.

 

[Golden]

Re-read what I wrote, I never said that.

yeah, just caught that lol. edited my post:

Edit: misread. I disagree with you on this stereotype being accurate.

and please. you didn't check my ass on shit. In that thread, I can pull up a quote where I specifically say "I guess I am jealous then." after other members presented different POVs on what it means to be jealous.

 

[Goldie]

yeah, just caught that lol. edited my post:

I did check you. At the beginning of that thread you were adamant about never being jealous. Then after me calling you out on the shit, you changed your tone.

 

[Golden]

I did check you. At the beginning of that thread you were adamant about never being jealous. Then after me calling you out on the shit, you changed your tone.

no, you came in responding to my initial post about jealousy a little while after I made my post admitting to jealousy.

 

[Goldie]

I called u out on that shit PAGE 1 , you didn't retract that shit till page 4. Cut it out b.

 

[Golden]

I called u out on that shit PAGE 1 , you didn't retract that shit till page 4. Cut it out b.

I was interacting with many other ppl in that thread b. what makes u think it was u n not others or not all of u that made me look @ it differently?

 

[Goldie]

Fact remains, U were called out on ur bullshit by me and others and you changed ur tone. Some "independent" women try too hard to front like they're something they're not and it's easy to see through.

 

[Duwop]

Trini been extra scrappy lately....

Whassup luv?
Errething OK??

 

[Chi-Town B]

Trini been extra scrappy lately....

Whassup luv?
Errething OK??

It's always towards Goldie.

 

[Duwop]

It's always towards Goldie.

Naw, I'm crazy perceptive.... my homie been zapping

 

[Golden]

Fact remains, U were called out on ur bullshit by me and others and you changed ur tone. Some "independent" women try too hard to front like they're something they're not and it's easy to see through.

I didn't change my tone. I described the behaviors I do possess n said I categorized them under feeling disrespected or wanting to protect myself. I didn't front. It was when others said that the feeling disrespected falls under that, that I said "I guess I'm jealous then". it was a matter of terminology, not me pretending I'm something I'm not. if that was the case, I wld never have freely said I'm pro-snooping and shit (in various threads, before that one even).

you're insinuating that i'm falsely presenting myself when that isn't the case.

 

[Goldie]

I didn't change my tone. I described the behaviors I do possess n said I categorized them under feeling disrespected or wanting to protect myself. I didn't front. It was when others said that the feeling disrespected falls under that, that I said "I guess I'm jealous then". it was a matter of terminology, not me pretending I'm something I'm not. if that was the case, I wld never have freely said I'm pro-snooping and shit (in various threads, before that one even).

you're insinuating that i'm falsely presenting myself when that isn't the case.

You are, but ok