He also said if you get bored, you don’t like your spouse.
what say you?
what say you?
I don't think I let my spouse take enough of my realm for me to be bored by her if that makes any sense
Then don't.Not listening to du about martial advice
Like it's funny cuz I'm legit sitting at the reception at a wedding where I was just talking about your spouse being your best friend. And never having to worry about keeping the spark alive when you're having too much fun being around your favorite person
Iowno Monk...friendships and marriages have very different dynamics. You don't live with or see your friends day in and day out for years, aren't raising children with your friends, not sharing bills and other responsibilities with your friends. Your Fidelity/infidelity (Lord forbid!) isn't an issue between friends...I could go on. Your expectations are or should be, vasty different for your friends vs. your spouse.I don't know if I would have phrased it quite like Du did, but I agree for the most part. If you have a genuine close relationship with your spouse, it shouldn't be that hard to maintain the spark. People can keep the same friends for 10, 20, 30 years without having to do anything special to maintain the friendship. There's no reason the same can't be true for a marriage.
Iowno Monk...friendships and marriages have very different dynamics. You don't live with or see your friends day in and day out for years, aren't raising children with your friends, not sharing bills and other responsibilities with your friends. Your Fidelity/infidelity (Lord forbid!) isn't an issue between friends...I could go on. Your expectations are or should be, vasty different for your friends vs. your spouse.
Just my lil two pennies.
Like yeah, everybody needs a break adulting and responsibilities.... But a lot of those things that are stressful about life in general are a lot less stressful because of my spouse. We work well together, and often show our appreciation for things we're grateful for.aren't raising children with your friends, not sharing bills and other responsibilities with your friends.