Do we say thank you to the men in our lives enough?

[SeaSnake]

If you're referring to me and implying I'm an oldhead who would say that....nope.
What should be done and what's done isn't the same in our environment and community.
The bad far outwieght the good and the bad is remembered more than the good.

Many mother will kick the dad ain't shit more than "you have a great dad and should be thankful".

Can we keep it honest.

I don’t think you being honest I think you being bias to personal experience like everybody else. Just because every baby mom and baby dad in your life don’t get along does not mean everybody is living like Baby Boy. Only reason the negative is talked about is because niggas be depressed and won’t get therapy

 

[DOS_patos]

I don’t think you being honest I think you being bias to personal experience like everybody else. Just because every baby mom and baby dad in your life don’t get along does not mean everybody is living like Baby Boy. Only reason the negative is talked about is because niggas be depressed and won’t get therapy

i think you took this somewhere it didnt have to go ...as usual.

the question is asked was simple...it you wasnt talking about me..fine. no shot needed. good lawd.

but like i said......we need to keep it honest.
are there father who do alot fo their kids. sure.
are their kids who grow up without there fathers.....yup.
which hurts our community more?
which is seen more?
you have more destroying than you have building.
just because you dont like it dont mean its not happening.
so we should respect and prop up those who are doing their job...even if its happening more....give them men their respect for not becoming apart of the problem.

 

[BDP™️]

Yes and probably should do it more...

My grandfather passed a couple days ago and that shit hit me hard...he raised me...

Just give people their roses while they can smell em family

 

[SeaSnake]

i think you took this somewhere it didnt have to go ...as usual.

the question is asked was simple...it you wasnt talking about me..fine. no shot needed. good lawd.

but like i said......we need to keep it honest.
are there father who do alot fo their kids. sure.
are their kids who grow up without there fathers.....yup.
which hurts our community more?
which is seen more?
you have more destroying than you have building.
just because you dont like it dont mean its not happening.
so we should respect and prop up those who are doing their job...even if its happening more....give them men their respect for not becoming apart of the problem.

I’m not coming at you but that comment about how most moms say the dad ain’t shit didn’t seem like it came from anything. And dads get loads of respect you never heard a nigga be called lame for being a responsible dad. It’s men don’t want constant praise that does not mean we don’t want any praise. We just go bout it differently

 

[DOS_patos]

I’m not coming at you but that comment about how most moms say the dad ain’t shit didn’t seem like it came from anything. And dads get loads of respect you never heard a nigga be called lame for being a responsible dad. It’s men don’t want constant praise that does not mean we don’t want any praise. We just go bout it differently

but you dont think we should promote those dudes that do positive in our community because they dont want praise?

can it be looked at as showing respect?
i mean since so much bad shit can be said about black men....now its a problem to big them up?

who controls our image?

 

[DOS_patos]

Yes and probably should do it more...

My grandfather passed a couple days ago and that shit hit me hard...he raised me...

Just give people their roses while they can smell em family

Sorry to hear about your loss.
but you are absolutely right.
thats all im saying.

 

[The Lonious Monk]

Is it really that hard to develop a bond with a kid you see everyday that lives in the same house as you?

It can be. Kids are a handful and not everybody is built to deal with them especially when there is no real connection there.