Do we say thank you to the men in our lives enough?
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He big mad......
1/2
Dont drank out my drank, foo
all pussy...nobody wants to hear that nor was anybody thinking about that during the draft
ya'll ever had a step dad?
you really supposed to big up the nigga thats fuckin yo mama on the biggest night of your life?
if he felt any sort of deeper bond then that, they all would have request that he be called his dad and not his step dad
i used to correct people all the time when they'd call my step dad my dad......and yes he paid bills where I lived
one has nothing to do with the other
ya'll ever had a step dad?
you really supposed to big up the nigga thats fuckin yo mama on the biggest night of your life?
if he felt any sort of deeper bond then that, they all would have request that he be called his dad and not his step dad
i used to correct people all the time when they'd call my step dad my dad......and yes he paid bills where I lived
one has nothing to do with the other
DOS_patos
Unverified Legion of Trill member
Do we tend to forget those men who helped us along our journey?
when was the last time you called up that oldhead who looked out for you to say thank you or check on him?
I was watching a one of the below videos and it got me wondering if people look over there shoulder to give props for the help that got them where they are.
damn near everyone thanks their mom...but us black men....people sometimes draw a blank.
this case below ,i think might have been him lost in the moment but i do think his stepdad should have stood with him.
this is not taking away from young Zion in no way....I followed him for a while and i hope he can live up to the hype. but his young mind may have forgot.
But right now........lets have this conversation.
and how would you feel if you put in time with a child thats not yours and not given a thank you?
and while i know many will say yall dont need it, but if you did put in time....you should be respected.
when was the last time you called up that oldhead who looked out for you to say thank you or check on him?
I was watching a one of the below videos and it got me wondering if people look over there shoulder to give props for the help that got them where they are.
damn near everyone thanks their mom...but us black men....people sometimes draw a blank.
this case below ,i think might have been him lost in the moment but i do think his stepdad should have stood with him.
this is not taking away from young Zion in no way....I followed him for a while and i hope he can live up to the hype. but his young mind may have forgot.
But right now........lets have this conversation.
and how would you feel if you put in time with a child thats not yours and not given a thank you?
and while i know many will say yall dont need it, but if you did put in time....you should be respected.
1/2
Dont drank out my drank, foo
all im saying is how would that man even know if the step dad helped him or not
how he know this nigga aint just marry his mom like 6 years ago?
all step dads out here playing ball with the kids and supporting their dreams right?
none of them just sit on the couch and drink and talk shit??
how he know this nigga aint just marry his mom like 6 years ago?
all step dads out here playing ball with the kids and supporting their dreams right?
none of them just sit on the couch and drink and talk shit??
The Lonious Monk
Celestial Souljah
I've thanked people who've helped me along. I don't make a big deal out of it. I also don't expect thanks for anything I do. That said, I get why people are upset about this. It is kinda messed up that these kids keep acting like their mothers deserve all the credit when they succeed despite the fact that it was men in their lives that really put them in that position.
deadeye
Warrior
Ironically, you're actually making his point.
From what's been disclosed about Zion's stepdad, he doesn't come across as a nigga who was just fucking Zion's mother.
It seems as if he played a crucial role in Zion's development.
Maybe it wasn't calculated, and he just got caught up in the moment........but it definitely speaks to his character, or lack thereof........for not even acknowledging the role his stepfather played in his life.
DMorgan
You niggas is EXCOMMUNICADO!!!
First bold ain't a step dad. That's your mama boyfriend or your mama his jump off.
2nd bold I disagree. Regardless of the bond that ain't his dad it's his step dad and it ain't disrespectful to be called or referred to as step dad no matter what you may have done for that child or how long you been in their life.
DOS_patos
Unverified Legion of Trill member
why you say that? this is an interesting statement
The Mad Titan
Active Member
We dont and maybe never will. That mother child bond is some next level shit that cant be fucked with. Ive seen cases of straight brainwashing.
I think what happens is a lotta times a good step dad is under recognized because despite all the good he may do/have done, there is a void left from bio dad that overshadows it.
Its almost like the youbg men are praising their moms(sometimes not rightfully so) and hurting over the lack of their bio dad at the same time. In those situations its easy for step dad to get lost in the mix.
No matter how great a step parent may be, its human instict to long for the affection of the ppl who brought you into this world.
I think what happens is a lotta times a good step dad is under recognized because despite all the good he may do/have done, there is a void left from bio dad that overshadows it.
Its almost like the youbg men are praising their moms(sometimes not rightfully so) and hurting over the lack of their bio dad at the same time. In those situations its easy for step dad to get lost in the mix.
No matter how great a step parent may be, its human instict to long for the affection of the ppl who brought you into this world.
they still bitter and unhappy with the way life turned out and make a lotta moves that make it difficult to fuck with them.. even in their advanced age...so i just be like fck it
The Lonious Monk
Celestial Souljah
Let's be real, a step-dad should be praised even quicker than a biological dad. I'd do anything for my kids because they are mine. That's just natural. It takes a special dude to develop that kinda bond with some other nigga's kids. It's disrespectful as hell to not acknowledge that. Don't let niggas get like lions. When they trying to get with a female that got kids, the first thing they do is get rid of the kids. lol
disagree, but i don't feel like getting into it
DOS_patos
Unverified Legion of Trill member
Damn.
Maybe some of them don't know how to take love in a certain way.
Someone once told me that alot of young boys are not praised....so when they are it's kinda a weird feeling to them. They love it but don't get it enough. I wonder if that's apart of it too.