I think everybody should just as a part of life not on no "getting it outa your system" type shit.
Do Men & Women Need To Go Through Hoe Phases?
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devlyn
New Member
You are right that was Being a HOE time...lol no doubt about it 9??!!
How did you handle all that confusion??
IP360
Doctorate & Ph.D in Bootyology
Shockingly well.
Had one was outta state.
One knew about the others I was talkin too but didn't give a fucc.
Another kept it just sexual b/t us.
One was fool up.
One was looking for a "sponsor" to pay her bills (not me tho).
Two were exes
One was cool, just wasn't relationship material for me.
The last one couldn't get in a relationship with b/c she kept bringing up her ex.
Wow. Lol.
devlyn
New Member
smh..men and you wonder why ..
we don't trust
Why we touch yout phones
Why we question so much
and more lol..
IP360
Doctorate & Ph.D in Bootyology
Aye...
1) I wasnt committed to them. They wasn't committed to me
2) That's when I was going a break up. So I told them up front I wasnt ready to jump back into one. Was up to them if they wanted to stick around
3) The fool up one...yeah she was the break into your phone, email, social site type. Hell naw. Lol
Judge Dread
Active Member
No one should settle down and then think of all the things they should have done. There are experiences that you may have wanted to share but can't with your s/o. Like she may not want a 3some. So it is best to get those and stuff like that out of your system. It is not hoeing per say but you don't want to be in your rocking chair thinking of all the things you missed
Old Man Cain
OG
First and foremost this rule is something you all should live by.............. ."Women can't do what Men can do AND they shouldn't try it"
Golden
Administrator
GOAT first post
devlyn
New Member
Just because you felt some type away didn't mean they agreed. But you right you did warn them..but you was still a Hoe at that time..9?? lol
IP360
Doctorate & Ph.D in Bootyology
Don't judge me.
I was in a bad place...no literally I was. The sponsor chick had the water in her crib cut off cuz she didn't pay her bill. Bad place to be at when you was thirsty.
Judge Dread
Active Member
Thank you
maybe we shouldnt say hoe phase, however, i would HIGHLY recommend date as many people as possible
if you sex them in the process, then be grown about it, but get as many experiences with just dealing with people as much as you can
i dont think you have to fuck em all to achieve the same effect, but be a serial dater
if you sex them in the process, then be grown about it, but get as many experiences with just dealing with people as much as you can
i dont think you have to fuck em all to achieve the same effect, but be a serial dater
No and no.
Golden
Administrator
casual dating is good in theory but it's synonymous with sex for this tinder generation. dating is nerve wrecking.
this is true, however, i think a lot of this gets solved by just telling someone straight up that you not looking for casual encounters and be honest about it and not use it as some tactic
i mean, they will weed themselves out by process of elimination b/c if they just wanna smash, and you hit em with that, then they'll all of a sudden get busy. Im not saying that if you wanna smash them back you shouldnt, but im saying just be upfront about your expectations
Reesey
Real Thugs Eat Green Apple Jolly Ranchers.
Phases are only in existence because of the restrictions that are put on relationships.
If we didn't feel like we had to "sow our wild oats" before we settle down, this wouldn't even be a thing. lol
Restrictions make people hoes. Remove restrictions and errybody happy.
That's my story and I'm sticking to it. :cool:
If we didn't feel like we had to "sow our wild oats" before we settle down, this wouldn't even be a thing. lol
Restrictions make people hoes. Remove restrictions and errybody happy.
That's my story and I'm sticking to it. :cool:
Golden
Administrator
imo restrictions take into account ppls differences. I like your outlook tho, long as everybody honest.
answer still the same