It does not contradict anything. You act like she could just leave. He blew a nigga car up. Ridiculous.
Where are you getting this informationYou know how crazy it sounds that Diddy allegedly beat her, raped her, had her gang-raped, drugged her, prevented her from working, controlled how she looked and on top of that, when she got away, blew up the person she was seeing car...and didn't go to the police?
In between being gangraped and realizing Diddy is crazy enough to blow up a fucking car when I left him, I would wake the fuck up and call the cops.
Not finally leave, get a husband, have a baby and then use some MeToo Era bailout law to get a couple million because my husband is broke.
Where are you getting this information
Idk how many times it needs to be said to yall that you can't tell someone how to deal with their trauma. That's what YOU would have done
This.... This ain't it bYou can tell someone how to deal with their trauma. We live in a fucking society with other people. We tell people everyday to do shit that is hard, difficult and challenging despite how the fuck they feel.
Other people's actions affect us. Other people's vulnerabilities affect us.
It's funny, the same people that will tell families in crime-ridden neighborhoods, that they should call the cops on troublemakers.
The same people that said the whole "Stop Snitching Movement" of the 2000s fucked a generation.
Will turn around and say a woman that stayed in a relationship with a man for financial security, but he's out here blowing up cars and shit...
"You can't tell her how to deal with her trauma."
How infantilizing is that?
Would you tell someone that got shot, they need to take all the time that they need, whether it's 6 months to a whole fucking decade to call the cops and say who did it?
Cassie was a whole ass adult. She wasn't a child that was groomed and had to take time to understand what happened.
So yes, we can tell people how to deal with bad shit happening to them. We built entire scientific disciplines to tell people how to deal with bad shit happening to them. We built institutions to tell people how to deal with bad shit happening to them.
The idea that we can't do that because of fucking feelings of adults is stupid as fuck.
Like yeah, "I left my boyfriend and he just blew up a car but I don't wanna call the cops on him because he treats me bad and has money."
This.... This ain't it b
Y’all don’t help/tell people how to deal with their problems/trauma?
That's what I am saying.
They supposedly got kids and women they care about and their child or woman gonna come to them and say some shit like,
"I was abused last month."
And their response gonna be,
"I'll let you deal with trauma on your own time. I don't even need to know who did it and I am not gonna report it because it's your right to deal with your trauma and problems how you want to."
Lol. Cops aren't gonna be called. Authorities aren't gonna be alerted.
Just passive acceptance and resignation of fate. Encouraging people to take all the time they need to process bad things happening to them before doing something about it.
Deadeye keeps inferring that unless a woman goes straight to a precinct immediately after being assaulted then it must not be a big deal because why wait if something really happened to you and I just don't understand why this is.
Giving a solicited opinion doesn't equal me telling them what to do or how to deal with it.Y’all don’t help/tell people how to deal with their problems/trauma?
No, I just don't understand the logic in reporting something years later when it can be reported shortly after it happened.
Fam, there are veterans who haven't served in years that still are dealing with the trauma of combat. Seeing squad members blown up literally in front of their faceThey're not gonna answer that.
All they're gonna do is deflect and make up excuses.
Fam, there are veterans who haven't served in years that still are dealing with the trauma of combat. Seeing squad members blown up literally in front of their face
Who are we as people who have never served to tell them, man you should be over it by now, it's been 5 years.
Some shit stays with some people a little longer than others and that should be ok. Who knows what kinda therapy she's had to undergo to a) even trust another man to get into a committed relationship with and b) get to a place to even talk about it
No, I just don't understand the logic in reporting something years later when it can be reported shortly after it happened.
That's what I am saying.
They supposedly got kids and women they care about and their child or woman gonna come to them and say some shit like,
"I was abused last month."
And their response gonna be,
"I'll let you deal with trauma on your own time. I don't even need to know who did it and I am not gonna report it because it's your right to deal with your trauma and problems how you want to."
Lol. Cops aren't gonna be called. Authorities aren't gonna be alerted.
Just passive acceptance and resignation of fate. Encouraging people to take all the time they need to process bad things happening to them before doing something about it.