The Lonious Monk
Celestial Souljah
Being forgiving has proven ineffective against racism. It does not solve the problem.
It's also what racist promote the most black to people, because they know how nonthreatening it is to white supremacy.
Also, as I've stated, forgiveness in the case of many black people (not all) is an excuse to not deal with the problem of injustice done to them.
It explains away the wrong done to them as something divinely out of there hands to just suffer through.
What's even worst is that those same black people will be hypocrites if crossed by another black person.
If someone owes them money, if their lover cheats on them, if someone hurts their feelings, forgiveness wouldn't be on the table.
But the moment it's white supremacy doing them wrong, they want to bring their bible out.
That family is horribly mistaken if they think they got justice.
Black people are in prison for far longer for doing far less than Amber.
This type of behavior further perpetuates the power of a corrupt system and the lack of value for black lives in our country.
They are fools, or complicit, for not realizing it.
I agree with what you're saying based on the mindsets you're speaking to. However, I don't think most people preaching forgiveness do so because they believe it alone can solve racism or because they think it excuses them from the fight. To me, that seems to be something you made up. I don't doubt there are people that fit into both camps, but I doubt it's a representative sample.
Anyway, I don't think you and I are at odds. I'm ok with people being forgiving even in circumstances like this. However, like you said, this guy's action isn't going to change the world, and in general people have to understand forgiveness isn't enough. You can be forgiving, but you still have to fight for justice.
As for whether or not the family got justice, I don't know to be honest. I think it all depends on if you really believe the chick's story that she was drunk and walked into the house on accident. If they really bought that it was all a mistake, then 10 years seems fair. If you don't believe that, which I don't, then 10 years is too light. Maybe if she got a mandatory 10 years that would be better since we all know she's not going to serve that number now.