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DaBaby kicks DaniLeigh out with 3 month old child

DOS_patos said:
Too bad that ain’t my case.

I jet lagged but I’m living the smoke.

and for the record, I didn’t act brand new.
But what ya not gonna do is use my kids as a tool to get at me.
This a whole life that was create and a chick wanna be in her feelings?
Nah.
If you not being a mother and raising the child respectably and understand a two parent role in a child’s life…..the child needs to be with me.
Dont matter how I felt about the mother , they was still the mother. And she will see her child whenever she wants even if it worked against my better judgement.
But see, I feel where you coming from, but just on the guys side.
I can admit the mothers wasn’t shit and I made babies with them. That’s on me for not acting better. But what’s also on me is not allowing my child to be raised in a toxic environment and to step up as a father and give me child the best life I can provide.
everything you said is true for a certain type Nigga.
Dos ain’t that type Nigga.
And it’s funny when a dad has custody the moms don’t want to pay child support. Why is that?

and since I’m started now, as much as them braids hate my ass, anyone can ask them how they were treated during pregnancy…..we did the malls walks, breathing classes, nigga at every check up, doing medicine refills…….as I’m sure a lot of the other fathers on here have done.
I welcome your venting but imma need to correct this ain’t shit father image in the face all already against us.
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All men are not awful fathers. Glad to hear you are there for your children and their mothers as well. I feel all this comes down to a perception of love and how we as men and women expect to be happy through someone else. We control and or withdraw when our partner is not doing what we want or need to be happy. Love has become very externally focused. And while many people speak on self love, in practice its not the easiest thing to act out. Especially if your whole life ,your beliefs about love have been based on the actions of what other people do and say or don't do and don't say.

People change and so if I base love off what someone else does and say...then love will always have a moving target. In the case of Dani and Da Baby and alot of relationships. The man decides to practice self love and gets his happiness the best he sees fit. While the woman tends to suppress her needs and thinks if everyone else is happy then she is good. Women often have babies because they think their man will be happy and him being good will in turn make her content. So when that man seeks happiness via another means...she feels betrayed etc.

I truly wish and desire for the cycle of love that has been repeated throughout our culture is elevated to a level above "what have you done for me lately". And I understand that not all relationships work out. People are in our lives for a season.

Sending healing energy over dababy( he needs a spiritual retreat and some chakra balancing) I need healing energy too. I just did a meditation and balancing of my chakras. And to you too Dos. I am sure you desire balance, peace and harmonious communications with your ex partners. So I send that energy to you.
 
So, wanting to make sure you don’t have unplanned kids is hating children now?

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Bet DaBaby and this chick life would be a lot more stress-free had that dumb nugga put some shit on before he decided to shoot her club up.
 
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Mister B. said:
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Don't get mad at me cause that EBRC dumb shit y'all be preachin on this muhfuck stay coming back to haunt y'all in the form of 20 years of parenthood you didn't want.

Strap the fuck up and you won't have these problems.
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Who is y'all?
 
royalascension said:
All men are not awful fathers. Glad to hear you are there for your children and their mothers as well. I feel all this comes down to a perception of love and how we as men and women expect to be happy through someone else. We control and or withdraw when our partner is not doing what we want or need to be happy. Love has become very externally focused. And while many people speak on self love, in practice its not the easiest thing to act out. Especially if your whole life ,your beliefs about love have been based on the actions of what other people do and say or don't do and don't say.

People change and so if I base love off what someone else does and say...then love will always have a moving target. In the case of Dani and Da Baby and alot of relationships. The man decides to practice self love and gets his happiness the best he sees fit. While the woman tends to suppress her needs and thinks if everyone else is happy then she is good. Women often have babies because they think their man will be happy and him being good will in turn make her content. So when that man seeks happiness via another means...she feels betrayed etc.

I truly wish and desire for the cycle of love that has been repeated throughout our culture is elevated to a level above "what have you done for me lately". And I understand that not all relationships work out. People are in our lives for a season.

Sending healing energy over dababy( he needs a spiritual retreat and some chakra balancing) I need healing energy too. I just did a meditation and balancing of my chakras. And to you too Dos. I am sure you desire balance, peace and harmonious communications with your ex partners. So I send that energy to you.
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Your “love will always be a moving target” line is nasty but very true.
 
Chicity said:
Who knew Dani getting kicked out would be so triggering for the baby mammas and baby daddies cross the board

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So you have baby mama(s) ? do you take care of your kids sir? I don't see you posting pictures or nothing( and no I am not scrolling back to 2017).

I will be honest, as much as I try not to judge or form opinions about posters based on yall keyboard persona, I judge. But when I see the men posting pictures of the babies it lightens yalls spirit ( through the computer lol ). I see yall different. A man being present for his children in a healthy way and tending to them mind, body and spirit is so fucking sexy.

So you ever just emotional, psychological and physically leave the mother of your child or girlfriend assed out ? No respect or understanding for her, just focused on you and not giving a damn about her. Emotionally unavailable ....tell shawty she too much?

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royalascension said:
So you have baby mama(s) ? do you take care of your kids sir? I don't see you posting pictures or nothing( and no I am not scrolling back to 2017).

I will be honest, as much as I try not to judge or form opinions about posters based on yall keyboard persona, I judge. But when I see the men posting pictures of the babies it lightens yalls spirit ( through the computer lol ). I see yall different. A man being present for his children in a healthy way and tending to them mind, body and spirit is so fucking sexy.

So you ever just emotional, psychological and physically leave the mother of your child or girlfriend assed out ? No respect or understanding for her, just focused on you and not giving a damn about her. Emotionally unavailable ....tell shawty she too much?

:sayit:
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Chi is actually one of the few dudes I highly respect as a parent. Nigga, had four girls , doing it solo, full-time. Gotta salut that man. He a hoe at times…..but gotta respect that part.
Not everyone wants to post up pics of they kids. Niggas crazy out here.
 
Alot of rlationships during the pandemic were tested. Alot of toxic mindsets and behaviors challenged.

Women have always as a whole pushed aside they own desires,wants and needs to raise a child. And usually the feedback from a man is oh well let me raise the child so the woman can stop complaining. Or say well I never asked you to do that...it was your choice( fighting words). Dani probably saw a side of Da baby that she felt was real and maybe the money had something to do with it.

Women deal with some much and all they trying to do take care of their children, they partner and themselves. The balance of all that is always in fluctuation. Usually taking care of themselves is the ball that drops.

I went to the military 8 months after my fucking baby was born. I missed his 1st steps and a bunch of other shit. And when I was gone....who stepped up. My mother and his father mother. My dad was there too. But it was mainly women. And the man I had the child with was out frolicking making another baby 😒.

When I came home I got a job that paid real good...because I needed to provide for my child with on one income. So I traveled alot.

I don't know why Dani gave up her house or left the DR...but I am sure she thought that man would hold her down. And it's the most devastating thing to be confronted with a heartbreaking reality of the man changing up or being done with you....and you have a child to be there for.
 
You do not have to be with the mother in order to be a good father to the baby, those two aren't a package deal. Unless there's stories that he's a bad father then y’all can't put that on him because he decided he don't want to be with the mom.
 
DOS_patos said:
Chi is actually one of the few dudes I highly respect as a parent. Nigga, had four girls , doing it solo, full-time. Gotta salut that man. He a hoe at times…..but gotta respect that part.
Not everyone wants to post up pics of they kids. Niggas crazy out here.
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Now if your saying he raised all his by himself they whole life, then that's what's up. Ok that's great. And taking care of multiple kids by yourself is amazing! However,this sounds like what alot of women do and have been doing Since the dawn of time.

What's the relationship between the kids mom? Would they say the same thing?
A handful of men be there for a moment in time and think they doing shit. Being a parent is not a race it's a lifelong marathon. So stepping in for one leg of the race is cool...thanks for the water break. But um yeah consistently showing up over time is key
 
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Chi-Town B said:
You do not have to be with the mother in order to be a good father to the baby, those two aren't a package deal. Unless there's stories that he's a bad father then y’all can't put that on him because he decided he don't want to be with the mom.
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You don't treat your child's mother like Da baby did. If he was legitimately "not safe" and wanted to film her for his protection. Last I checked phones have video recording. He had two or three people there. He wanted the public to see something. He wanted to embarrass her and shame her.

Listen to what was typed and said. When she found out she was pregnant she was in the DR. Apparently she agreed to let this man fly her to the states so the baby would be born in the US. Now baby here, they together and what not. Fast forward. She not out with him like she use to be.She home with the baby. Life continues for him. One thing she said was that she bought a plan b. And that is a clue. While alot of people did not care for her music. She had a music career. She probably was like I am not going to get pregnant again and etc etc. Da baby probably like ok well if you not having more kids or doing exactly I say then gtfo....

As soon as women make decisions about they body and what they will or won't do. The man be like oh well the next woman will. I had a man tell me...I don't love him because I don't swallow. You bitch nigga you...wtf. Who raised you? Niggas is nasty and use sex and other perverted shit as measures of love and loyalty.
 
DOS_patos said:
I see royal bout that business.

she bout to need to put on the gloves. Bout tired huh.
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I know you need some rest from your flight...so I will chill

But you see that sentence ⬆ , you know what that is? A black woman paying the fuck attention and giving space for the black man( like she always do) .99% of men would neva. You in the 1% it seems....jury still out.
 
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