It's offensive, honestly. From their black American pov if you're a "guest in our house" you shouldnt say shit that's contrary to our wants/demands. That's a given. They immediately questioned why she wouldn't want us to get money, like why would you be opposed to that? Then the questions come, assumptions are made and they get confirmed 9 times outta 10. That happens time and time again it becomes a Pattern. It's not a mere difference of opinion, she is off code. And yes black Americans have also talked like that but they're usually republican coons.