Co-worker Love... When does it become cheating?

[King Freeman]

Saw this and it reminded me of the curious case of the lunch nigga...



Alot of us work or have a s/o that works in mixed gender settings where you tend to have a favorite that's of the opposite sex be it innocent or something else. Whether it's platonic, straight physical attraction, mental or just a vibe.

What things are okay?
When does the co-worker love go too far?
When does it go from cute to cheating in your eyes?
Is your s/o getting tickled by a co-worker crossing a line?
What things that might sit in the grey areas for others are clear violations to yall?
What is your experience with or as the lunch nigga/chick?

 

[Hater Hearst Helmsley]

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adjective

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   GEOLOGY
   relating to or denoting igneous rock formed by solidification at considerable depth beneath the earth's surface.
2. 2.
   relating to the underworld or the god Pluto.

 

[King Freeman]

Don't know what you're talking about.

 

[IP360]

Don't know what you're talking about.

I'm guess t/s means Lunch Nigga Level 16...playful banter included

 

[King Freeman]

I'm guess t/s means Lunch Nigga Level 16...playful banter included

I am the ts I was talking about @Hustletown police ass.

 

[CONFLICT]

I'm guess t/s means Lunch Nigga Level 16...playful banter included

He is the 5hread starter sir

 

[CONFLICT]

I am the ts I was talking about @Hustletown police ass.

But you made this thread yesterday already

 

[King Freeman]

But you made this thread yesterday already

Huh?

 

[Rubato]

Lol that “work husband” shit

 

[King Freeman]

Lol that “work husband” shit

Shit I'm married to 2 bitches and got kids at my day job. I be wanting to smash for real tho. Chick at my night job at the club gonna get mad I was talking to this chick the other night. I recovered tho. Trying to fuck her too. It's hard out here.

 

[Pachá12]

The minute you either don't tell work boo the full scope of your relationship or you start confiding in them to talk down on your s/o, that's a problem. There should be no touching or flirting. This is from a marriage perspective.

Boyfriend/girlfriend situations is fair game. If they cheat, they cheat

 

[Herbal Kint]

Knew a dude who used to say someone was his work wife but it was always against the woman's will

 

[Remy_LeGermz]

All of us posting are lunch niggaz to the women posting..

Those of us that aren't, ya mean..

 

[IP360]

Knew a dude who used to say someone was his work wife but it was always against the woman's will

Sounds like something Deadeye would say. He seem like the type that gets calls from HR on a weekly basis. Lol

 

[Duwop]

That's shit single people do....

When you in a relationship you don't play like that at work.....

Niggaz stay trying to play the fence

 

[Rubato]

That's shit single people do....

When you in a relationship you don't play like that at work.....

Niggaz stay trying to play the fence

...y’all wanna tell him?

 

[Duwop]

...y’all wanna tell him?

I just watch and laugh.

These hoes ain't loyal.

 

[The Mad Titan]

Work spaces can be hella tempting. Hell you actually spend more time at work than with your s/o usually.

When it gets to the point where theres lunches,personal convos about your relationships, too much 1 on 1 time etc its only a matter of time before the fuckin starts

 

[King Freeman]

That's shit single people do....

When you in a relationship you don't play like that at work.....

Niggaz stay trying to play the fence

Betta get ya girl fam...
Keep thinking these niggas playing and these chicks not falling for it and vice versa.

 

[Duwop]

Betta get ya girl fam...

Nigga my wife work with all women...

But that playing around at work shit is just dumb.

I expect young ass people to do that shit... But once you hit a certain age you know how quick that shit can go left... So why even entertain it...

I don't even fake flirt at work.... It's just a fruitless practice...