well I can only speak for myself but I think thats ridiculous
all this shit is subjective to where a person lives, lifestyle, hobbies, occupation, etc
for instance, I dated all different races growing up.....mostly black but I never discriminated.....my first child is with a black woman
when that relationship ended, I was on some "never again" shit with relationships.....i wanted to be single and just live life and work on me
never once had the mindframe of going after any particular race because i didnt even want a gf, fuck what color she was
my wife and I have been friends since 7th grade....she was a tomboy and played basketball, was always cool to talk to, and was just an all around good person.....started chatting it up with her soon after me and the bm split....and shit just happened....within months we were building each other and making shit happen in each others lives that wasnt happening otherwise.....I got my daughter back (full custody), got off paper, started process of getting rights back, started fixing my credit, and pretty much changed my lifestyle...she left her family's business and started her own, and later bought another, and has now had 2 children for me and takes damn good care of all 3 of them....hair and all (yeah that matters lol)
but we've heard it all and been thru it all....people love to tell us why we're together and whats happening....shits amusing at this point