Word, it's all personal preference on what you consider to much consensual sex was had by this person, and or what type and who they had sex with.It all depends
I was dating a chick one time and made the mistake of asking how many dudes she had slept with. It was in the mid 60s. Tried to let it go and convince myself that I was being a hypocrite but I never looked at her the same.
But kudos to her for being honest
i have the unpopular belief that it makes no different if you're a man or a woman... fucking around is fucking around....
whether is judged heavily or excused, it should be the same for both sexes..
that master key/master lock analogy holds no weight imo...
simply because niggaz with high body counts have just as much disregard for intimacy and relationships as women with high body counts....
it's something mental that changes when u get that high in numbers...can't explain it, but i see it all the time in the way ppl talk....
at th risk of sounding judgmental once again. i think couples should have similar body counts to be truly compatible....
i honestly didn't listen to the video because i still want to punch him in his faceI agree with you 100%
However, does this issue being addressed by your old compadre Gillie The Kid effect your opinion?
u smartIm more concerned about if she ever cheated.
I have never asked a chick bout her numbers. Thats weak to me.
Here is what I look for. Has anybody in my circle hit? If so, that never goes away. If someone I know hit it, it can be 20 years ago, i aint wifin.
Next, does she have a reputation amongst people I know? My circle considers her a smut? It aint happening.
Past that, im only worried about if this chick is gonna cheat on me. I believe once a cheater, always a cheater. Thats my focus. If she cheated on her old man, chances are she gonna cheat on me.
If she passes those 3 tests, meaning no one I know hit it, no one I know knows that she has the reputation of a hoe, and I cant prove she cheated, she gets a fair chance.
If she slept with a 100 dudes while she single and before me, I would be disgusted but I would never know cause I will never ask.
Man I can talk all day to my wife about funny stories about chicks I used to fuck.
But we can be watching power and she be "ghost is sexy" and in my mind I'm like
:Pathetic:"get the fuck outta this bed, whore"
We got fragile egos man, I wish it wasn't that way but it is