Swabbie
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Not really surprising. The gender war is there for all races, but it seems like it's more actively pushed for black people
Not really surprising. The gender war is there for all races, but it seems like it's more actively pushed for black people
Not sure why yall can't understand this happens with hiphop and other forms of media as well tho.Not really surprising. The gender war is there for all races, but it seems like it's more actively pushed for black people
Not really surprising. The gender war is there for all races, but it seems like it's more actively pushed for black people
Not sure why yall can't understand this happens with hiphop and other forms of media as well tho.
It's really not. White folks get just as much bullshit fed to them through media too. We're Black so most Black folks will notice the shit fed to us more, but it's out there in every form of media you can find and always has been. They been pushing the "Men are from Mars women are from Venus" shit for decades
It does. The disagreement comes in that many of us don't believe that makes HipHop inherently bad.
Sure, the general gender war has been pushed for a long time. But when is the last time you've seen a special on Prime Time news outlet dedicated to the difficulties that specifically White or Asian or Latin women have had finding suitable men of their race? There have been several of those for black people. Now with all the things affecting the black community, why is that the topic that they've dedicated news time to?
There's literally an entire political movement based around white people and their fear of being overtaken because white women ain't having enough babies and getting married later. The shit is literally affecting how this country is run and bills and laws being created to counter it. That's more serious than a TV news segment
Nope. Because I know different people have different deal breakers in realtionships.Breaks this down for me. Do you feel like any reason for divorce other than abuse is bullshit? Thats' what it sounds like. But Im not tryna put words in your mouth.
Nope. Because I know different people have different deal breakers in realtionships.
My belief (again from experience and not hypotheticals) Is that outside of abuse a married couple can put in the work and overcome infidelity, financial hardships, lack of intimacy and any other issues. But it takes both to be willing to do the work and I understand people have their limits and deal breakers
But IMO aint so such thing as “irreconcilable differences” its more like it got to a certain point where one or both parties just quit
BothYou or your wife cheated?
I love that you're so optimisticNope. Because I know different people have different deal breakers in realtionships.
My belief (again from experience and not hypotheticals) Is that outside of abuse a married couple can put in the work and overcome infidelity, financial hardships, lack of intimacy and any other issues. But it takes both to be willing to do the work and I understand people have their limits and deal breakers
But IMO aint so such thing as “irreconcilable differences” its more like it got to a certain point where one or both parties just quit
You can say that but like I said broI love that you're so optimistic
I feel youYou can say that but like I said bro
I take that stance cause I actually lived it lol
My wife and I have been thru shit that have killed other people’s marriages bro
So from MY perspective aint no such thing as irreconcilable differences
But I also understand that everybody dont have the same capacity to forgive, to put ego aside and take L’s and look “crazy for staying”, to be patient and suffer long with a person…
They reach a limit and tap out. It is what it is
My personal view on divorce:
NOTHING outside of abuse ( physical, verbal, etc) is irreconcilable
People just aren't willing to do the work.
And even THAT takes both people to commit fully.
My views arent a fairy tale or “in a perfect world” hypothetical.
I have lived it in my 15 years of marriage.
The things my wife and I have fought through in our marriage have taken out other marriages of people we know.
Nope. Because I know different people have different deal breakers in realtionships.
My belief (again from experience and not hypotheticals) Is that outside of abuse a married couple can put in the work and overcome infidelity, financial hardships, lack of intimacy and any other issues. But it takes both to be willing to do the work and I understand people have their limits and deal breakers
But IMO aint so such thing as “irreconcilable differences” its more like it got to a certain point where one or both parties just quit
There's literally an entire political movement based around white people and their fear of being overtaken because white women ain't having enough babies and getting married later. The shit is literally affecting how this country is run and bills and laws being created to counter it. That's more serious than a TV news segment