LOL folks just in it for the Wedding party at this point
I dunno y'all....Shout outs to @Duwop man for holding down Black Love 13 years skrong
Shout outs to @Duwop man for holding down Black Love 13 years skrong
Heading this route and this is true I donât see my kids willing staying with there moms half the time I predict my son will be with me permanently daughter switching between cribs and collegeGray Divorce Takes a Heavier Toll on Women's Standard of Living
Gray divorce is a term used for those who end a marriage at age 50 or older. When these late divorces occur, women pay a heavier price.
Women experienced a 45% decline in their living standards after a gray divorce, with living standards defined by comparing income to needs. By contrast, men experienced just a 21% decline.
Women are more likely to pay a financial price when a marriage ends because they are more likely to compromise or limit their careers due to homemaking responsibilities or to support their partner's ambitions. Because of the gender wage gap, women also make less than men on average, even in comparable roles.[11]
In 2023, About 5.8% of Children Under 18 Lived With Only Their Mother After Divorce
While thereâs a long-held belief that mothers are favored in custody proceedings, this is no longer necessarily true. In 2023, only 5.8% of children under 18 lived exclusively with their mother following a divorce.[29]
Shared custody has become the norm as societal views on parenting have shifted and courts and parents increasingly recognize the importance of a child continuing to build a relationship with both parents post-divorce.
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Eh, I'm 13 years in later this month....
In other news... Shaq out here telling niggaz not to cry in front of your lady....
My uncle held it down for over 20. Hopefully dew get til deathShout outs to @Duwop man for holding down Black Love 13 years skrong
donât believe any statistics in America when it comes down to Black people itâs always gonna show us in a negative light, especially when it comes down to the black family.
If I had to guess... Blacks seem to have the biggest issues with gender roles in the relationship.
Black women seem to struggle with being submissive. Especially when they make more money
Black men struggle with expressing their emotions. The always worried about being "respected" or looking "soft"
I don't really know too much shit about other races and couples, and I'm just speaking on what I've seen.
The overarching problem is both sides not knowing:Or maybe the problem is black men expecting women to be submissive.
My personal view on divorce:
NOTHING outside of abuse ( physical, verbal, etc) is irreconcilable
People just aren't willing to do the work.
And even THAT takes both people to commit fully.
My views arent a fairy tale or âin a perfect worldâ hypothetical.
I have lived it in my 15 years of marriage.
The things my wife and I have fought through in our marriage have taken out other marriages of people we know.
My personal view on divorce:
NOTHING outside of abuse ( physical, verbal, etc) is irreconcilable
People just aren't willing to do the work.
And even THAT takes both people to commit fully.
My views arent a fairy tale or âin a perfect worldâ hypothetical.
I have lived it in my 15 years of marriage.
The things my wife and I have fought through in our marriage have taken out other marriages of people we know.
Not just that but also, we know a good deal of marriages don't last passed 5 yrs. Most not beyond 7. Also, the numbers without proper conversation about the who, why and how these things happens. Some mentioned religion, cheating, etc already here but another thing is just people growing apart. Plus, alot of marriage may last that long but have been running on damn near empty for a 3rd of the marriage.While I'm not discounting this study...that being numbers from 2016 stands out. That's nearly a full decade ago of people in their mid 20s who most certainly aren't living the same lives now in their 30s. I'm sure those numbers would look different in 2024