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I've said nothing about what a "real woman" supposed to do.

One with sense would take accountability for choosing to bring a domestic abuser in her home and not call her childs father possibly getting his ass in trouble to handle dude when 911 still works.
Only way guy needs to handle anything for her if is his child is involved

Just my thoughts tho


Exactly.


If it's as serious as she says it is, why not call the police?


Almost makes it seem like she's still protecting him.


Either that or she could be setting you up to get locked up.......shot up......or killed.


Only thing I'd be focused on is using this as an opportunity to get full custody.
 
All you captain save a ho niggas gonna take your ass over there and that nigga gonna shoot you to death. Your stupid ass gonna be in the ground and she's gonna still be fucking that nigga. Nobody should fight for a chick that ain't yours unless it's blood
 
I need answers. Abw is not a monolith so I need some help. In past threads, ill say a majority is against getting police involved in black people bizz. But this very thread, a majority would want the cops involved. Math dont add up or am I seeing things wrong?
Ill make this a multiple choice. Is it....

A. fuck the cops always

B. I like the cops

C. Fuck the cops always just on the abw. But in reality i will call the cops if I have to. Im ok with some.

D. Fuck my bm/bf . Call the cops because I hope they act out and get taken away with their abusive partner as well.

E. The internet is not reality. I dont live what I type. Ill be the first to call the cops because some one bent one of the grass blades on my obvious private lawn.
 
I need answers. Abw is not a monolith so I need some help. In past threads, ill say a majority is against getting police involved in black people bizz. But this very thread, a majority would want the cops involved. Math dont add up or am I seeing things wrong?
Ill make this a multiple choice. Is it....

A. fuck the cops always

B. I like the cops

C. Fuck the cops always just on the abw. But in reality i will call the cops if I have to. Im ok with some.

D. Fuck my bm/bf . Call the cops because I hope they act out and get taken away with their abusive partner as well.

E. The internet is not reality. I dont live what I type. Ill be the first to call the cops because some one bent one of the grass blades on my obvious private lawn.
Lol

if the cops are involved it’s a report that can help with custody. That’s all I can think a reason would be.
 
I PROMISE you a real woman in REAL LIFE is not going to supportive of her man leaving their home to go fight for his ex woman. Go get his child? Oh for sure. But like I guarantee no grown woman with her own brain is just going to be cool with that. It might seem cool in theory but in real.life ya bitch will leave your shit on the curb for soem bs like that. Fight for your girl honor not your ex.

And shit goes the other around as well. Having a child with somebody you are not with anymore does not come with 24/7 security by me. If my child is in a bad environment it's time to get things in motion to not be in that ASAP.....if we are talking violence infront of the child the police would be called and how her family wants to handle that then that's what they do. If buddy gets wild and disrespectful while I'm there to get my son then that's the only time I would give my energy to his disprespect.

I hear you but I’m not letting mother of child get her ass beat
 
All you captain save a ho niggas gonna take your ass over there and that nigga gonna shoot you to death. Your stupid ass gonna be in the ground and she's gonna still be fucking that nigga. Nobody should fight for a chick that ain't yours unless it's blood

you don’t have a weapon? Like damn if he hit your kid you gonna say “ he might shoot me?”
 
I need answers. Abw is not a monolith so I need some help. In past threads, ill say a majority is against getting police involved in black people bizz. But this very thread, a majority would want the cops involved. Math dont add up or am I seeing things wrong?
Ill make this a multiple choice. Is it....

A. fuck the cops always

B. I like the cops

C. Fuck the cops always just on the abw. But in reality i will call the cops if I have to. Im ok with some.

D. Fuck my bm/bf . Call the cops because I hope they act out and get taken away with their abusive partner as well.

E. The internet is not reality. I dont live what I type. Ill be the first to call the cops because some one bent one of the grass blades on my obvious private lawn.
A and D.
 
Thanks for answering. I know you dont have kids but how come you think you and your mother's child would have a terrible relationship? All hypothetical.

Im seeing that alot in this thread. Some automatically think the worst. Some think they would hate the bm/bf, that they would be the ones that have the child, and that the op's message means going over there to fight the abuser. Many ways you can protect the mother without resorting to violence.
 
Thanks for answering. I know you dont have kids but how come you think you and your mother's child would have a terrible relationship? All hypothetical.

Im seeing that alot in this thread. Some automatically think the worst. Some think they would hate the bm/bf, that they would be the ones that have the child, and that the op's message means going over there to fight the abuser. Many ways you can protect the mother without resorting to violence.
Tell me in what capacity that there wouldn’t be animosity with a BM if I’m not with her. If I seeded up a woman, then it’s assumed I’m with her. If I’m not with her, my guess is there’s a beef, in which case, fuck that.

She made her choice; someone else said it best, I’m not devoted to you, I’m devoted to my seed. If you create an environment that’s too dangerous for said seed to exist, my loyalty and focus is to the kid, NOT you. You deal with your own shitty choices.
 
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