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Scandalust313 said:
*schoolbell rings*

So, first thing's first...a person being into receiveing a little pain for her/his pleasure, does not a "freak" make. Once you remove the "stigma" of something, you might discover a lot of things you didn't know about your partner (yourself as well). This can happen when you change your language.

I think it's cool that you're open to the idea of it tho.
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bet that

aight so i can speak for myself then....some people like them chicks that slap and bite and shit.....there's nothing about that that gives me any kind of rise....so for lack of better terminology, I would say im not a pain freak

i smack her up a lil bit during sex but we've never tried just tied up gettin ya ass whooped off a cold start lol....again, im down to try tho

it can be exciting to watch but only for a minute (like 10 really)

so for a person going into something like this for the first time.....do you get turned on first? a lil foreplay and then assume the position?

funny ass question but is there a point (say for you) that you get to before you're ready to be freed and move on to other things? does it always end in "traditional" sex? or are there just beating sessions and then ya'll go for tacos?
 
Scandalust313 said:
Sooo what do y'all think about spanking?

I'm not talking about that lightweight ass-smaking while you hit it from the back...that's cute tho

What I'm talking about is more on the S&M side of the game...no paddles/whips/etc. Just your strong hand(s)

Like is your wife/lady into it? Would you do it if she asked? Are you willing to learn how to do it properly?

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Anywhere but her face, sure.
 
1/2 said:
bet that

aight so i can speak for myself then....some people like them chicks that slap and bite and shit.....there's nothing about that that gives me any kind of rise....so for lack of better terminology, I would say im not a pain freak

i smack her up a lil bit during sex but we've never tried just tied up gettin ya ass whooped off a cold start lol....again, im down to try tho

it can be exciting to watch but only for a minute (like 10 really)

so for a person going into something like this for the first time.....do you get turned on first? a lil foreplay and then assume the position?

funny ass question but is there a point (say for you) that you get to before you're ready to be freed and move on to other things? does it always end in "traditional" sex? or are there just beating sessions and then ya'll go for tacos?
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I never said anything about being tied up tho.

How a couple goes into it for the first time is up to them and tailored to what they like sexually. Also, a spanking sesh may or may not be the same every time. It just depends on what you like.

It's important to note, there's a conversation to be had...y'all have to be on the same page.

Again, change your language...no one's being "beat".
 
Rubato said:
Feel like I’m too strong for that shit lol I would need some reassurance that I’m not going too hard
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Well yeah, that kinda goes without saying

Even if it was anything else sexual, you want to make sure your partner is comfortable and enjoying what you're doing

Your "strength" has nothing to do with it
 
Scandalust313 said:
I never said anything about being tied up tho.

How a couple goes into it for the first time is up to them and tailored to what they like sexually. Also, a spanking sesh may or may not be the same every time. It just depends on what you like.

It's important to note, there's a conversation to be had...y'all have to be on the same page.

Again, change your language...no one's being "beat".
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yes ma'am....my apologies

"spanking" is coming to a new light....i think we'll have that conversation

im really not sure how to tailor any other "like" into custom spanking but it doesnt sound like rocket science

i'll figure it out
 
Loquacious said:
Nah. I ain’t with it. A time solely focusing on spanking me, nah. If you in the mood and you feel the urge to tap tap that ass, yea I’m down.
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thats the only part that made it different to me....i've never set aside a portion of time just for that lol

but nah them good fingertip smacks on both cheeks here and there while fine dining or backshots is what it is
 
1/2 said:
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yes ma'am....my apologies

"spanking" is coming to a new light....i think we'll have that conversation

im really not sure how to tailor any other "like" into custom spanking but it doesnt sound like rocket science

i'll figure it out
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Lol...put the paddle away first!

No, you don't figure it out. You talk with your wife and ask her how does she think she'd like it if she were into it. You experiment with the level of force you put into the spanking...does she prefer the left or right cheek or both?...first one then the other?...two smacks left, then rub?...one smack then a jiggle on the right? You see where I'm going?

She may be in the doggy position, you may lay her across your lap, she can be bent over the back of the sofa...you may spank a couple of times and then give her a couple of quick deep strokes...pull out and resume spanking. Spank while she's face-down-ass-up and you're long stroking her. This is a good one...you're inside her but not giving her strokes...spank and feel what her pussy do lol

But if neither of you are into it then it just is what is. Everything ain't for everybody.

P.S. Haf you crack me up 'cause you be like "I'own really get down like dat but phuck it, why not? I'll try dat shit!"
 
Scandalust313 said:
Well yeah, that kinda goes without saying

Even if it was anything else sexual, you want to make sure your partner is comfortable and enjoying what you're doing

Your "strength" has nothing to do with it
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Where y’all like to be slapped at beside ass cheeks?
 
Scandalust313 said:
Sooo what do y'all think about spanking?

I'm not talking about that lightweight ass-smaking while you hit it from the back...that's cute tho

What I'm talking about is more on the S&M side of the game...no paddles/whips/etc. Just your strong hand(s)

Like is your wife/lady into it? Would you do it if she asked? Are you willing to learn how to do it properly?

Edited: Clarification
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I’m a sub and I enjoy being spanked. Like leave a hand print type spanking but it has to be done correctly or it’s over with.
 
Scandalust313 said:
Lol...put the paddle away first!

No, you don't figure it out. You talk with your wife and ask her how does she think she'd like it if she were into it. You experiment with the level of force you put into the spanking...does she prefer the left or right cheek or both?...first one then the other?...two smacks left, then rub?...one smack then a jiggle on the right? You see where I'm going?

She may be in the doggy position, you may lay her across your lap, she can be bent over the back of the sofa...you may spank a couple of times and then give her a couple of quick deep strokes...pull out and resume spanking. Spank while she's face-down-ass-up and you're long stroking her. This is a good one...you're inside her but not giving her strokes...spank and feel what her pussy do lol

But if neither of you are into it then it just is what is. Everything ain't for everybody.
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nah I hear you talkin lol

you made that shit sound like everything lol....we in the back of the class now

im fuckin wit it immediately.......in a very nice manner.......after we talk it out over a jay
 
Hazeleyes said:
I’m a sub and I enjoy being spanked. Like leave a hand print type spanking but it has to be done correctly or it’s over with.
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This is what I'm talmbout!

That hand print...and the sting, three days later, every time you sit down...wooooo baby!

I'm not a "sub" tho...not even into "the culture"...I just like that shit!

I'm gettng horny just thinking about it...damn!!!
 
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Hazeleyes said:
I’m a sub and I enjoy being spanked. Like leave a hand print type spanking but it has to be done correctly or it’s over with.
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lmao thats "intimidating" for lack of a better word.....this is the shit performance anxiety is made out of

so if he's had a drink and the aim and motor skills are lagging a bit and he accidentally slips off the side or makes that hard thud with his palm/wrist and no fingers.....its just "get out"? lmao

:lookatthismf:
 
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