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"You Can't Date White Women and Be Pro Black", but I bet you'll smash Candace Owens though.

Oh there's definitely a difference in those two and I've come across a few. Usually those the niggas who i say are the only Black people in a group pic. And yeah we're not that far off. Like I said from jump my main issue with what Umar, and others who take that pov, say when it comes to this topic is they grossly overexaggerrate just how many Black men in a certain tax bracket date white women. And their reasoning for it often reeks of them just being lames as opposed to an actual issue with the woman's they wanted.

Fair. I think there is an issue with the women they want, though. Those women just don't want them. lol That happens. Sometimes people, men and women, get fixated on people that don't want them. And instead of saying a specific woman or man didn't want them, they try to bash the whole group.

Don't befriend white people🤷🏾‍♂️

lol Why you want all black people to be bigots so bad?
 
That's a little different than telling someone not to befriend white people. lol

Not saying either set of instructions is wrong. It's just funny to me.
Oh well the convo went to "what's wrong if he grew up with them" or whatever it was

And that was my take
 
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Fair. I think there is an issue with the women they want, though. Those women just don't want them. lol That happens. Sometimes people, men and women, get fixated on people that don't want them. And instead of saying a specific woman or man didn't want them, they try to bash the whole group.



lol Why you want all black people to be bigots so bad?

Exactly. That's why I say like who likes you. People make themselves bitter by going after people who don't want them. They keep the same prototype just change the individual. After a while that prototype becomes how they view all men/women.
 
I can agree with the bold, but that's where perception comes in. We're basically saying the same thing from different sides.

Also, let's acknowledge that there is a difference between a black man who winds up marrying a white chick and a black man who prefers white chicks. Not all of the former are also the latter. I think that's something that's getting confused here. A dude could have one good experience with a white chick that turns into a long-term relationship. That doesn't all of a sudden mean he thinks all white chicks are better than all black chicks. Hell, a lot of the time them dudes be telling themselves that they found the one good white chick.

It's amazing how many black people who are so passionately anti-IR have, from all appearances, never thought of this. Even though the distinction should be common sense.
 


These NBA & NFL niggas love wifing/cuffing those Plain Jane Becky types…

Bro wtf are these niggas talking
Everytime bitches come with some crazy ass exorbitant request for money from celebs/athletes/etc you got a certain segment of society; gold digging whores and bitch ass niggaz, that support it.

Half the video is niggaz tryna argue that a bitch with no job need a fucking nanny, blood....stfu mayne
 
It’s cuz these niggas are cornballs. 55K a month to support your children is more than enough.

One thing I don't like about some of these "enlightened dudes" is they always come trying to kowtow to the rhetoric that women push. There's just something weird about progressive men where they act like you have to accept everything women say as fact if you want to be considered progressive.

The idea that a homemaker should be treated the same as any other job is ridiculous. I'm not saying it's a bad thing for a woman to hold down the household. Some might even argue society was better when families had dedicated homemakers. However, there is nothing that homemakers do that don't have to be done anyway. Every adult and parent has to tend to their household to some extent whether it's seen as a job or not. This chick's big accomplishment in life was having a few kids by a rich guy, and suddenly that entitles her to more than half a million dollars a year just to do this shit she'd already have to do as a grown up and mom? How is that still valid thinking in today's world?
 
One thing I don't like about some of these "enlightened dudes" is they always come trying to kowtow to the rhetoric that women push. There's just something weird about progressive men where they act like you have to accept everything women say as fact if you want to be considered progressive.

The idea that a homemaker should be treated the same as any other job is ridiculous. I'm not saying it's a bad thing for a woman to hold down the household. Some might even argue society was better when families had dedicated homemakers. However, there is nothing that homemakers do that don't have to be done anyway. Every adult and parent has to tend to their household to some extent whether it's seen as a job or not. This chick's big accomplishment in life was having a few kids by a rich guy, and suddenly that entitles her to more than half a million dollars a year just to do this shit she'd already have to do as a grown up and mom? How is that still valid thinking in today's world?
I'm mixed on the subject but how does one quantify what value a stay a mom really has?

What monetary amount per hour could you assign to what she gives in that dynamic?
 
I'm mixed on the subject but how does one quantify what value a stay a mom really has?

What monetary amount per hour could you assign to what she gives in that dynamic?

The same you amount you give to a nanny or au pair if you wanted to go that route. She'd essentially be performing the same service. I doubt many nannies are pulling in 660K a year, even the ones working for rich people.
 
The same you amount you give to a nanny or au pair if you wanted to go that route. She'd essentially be performing the same service. I doubt many nannies are pulling in 660K a year, even the ones working for rich people.
A nanny might be undervalued as well though
 
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