FEATURED Black Couples Have The Highest Divorce Rate & The Lowest Marriage Rate
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TTBF
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Not sure why yall can't understand this happens with hiphop and other forms of media as well tho.
It's really not. White folks get just as much bullshit fed to them through media too. We're Black so most Black folks will notice the shit fed to us more, but it's out there in every form of media you can find and always has been. They been pushing the "Men are from Mars women are from Venus" shit for decades
The Lonious Monk
Celestial Souljah
Not sure why yall can't understand this happens with hiphop and other forms of media as well tho.
It does. The disagreement comes in that many of us don't believe that makes HipHop inherently bad.
Sure, the general gender war has been pushed for a long time. But when is the last time you've seen a special on Prime Time news outlet dedicated to the difficulties that specifically White or Asian or Latin women have had finding suitable men of their race? There have been several of those for black people. Now with all the things affecting the black community, why is that the topic that they've dedicated news time to?
There's literally an entire political movement based around white people and their fear of being overtaken because white women ain't having enough babies and getting married later. The shit is literally affecting how this country is run and bills and laws being created to counter it. That's more serious than a TV news segment
Lol, the entire developed world is struggling with reconciling feminism with capitalism and the loss of community. Has been for 60 plus years and it's finally accelerated due to technology and gross income and inequality.
It manifest itself in different ways, racially.
White men's sense of losing their community always manifested in draconian and extreme political systems.
White man's discontent gets him politician, laws and wars.
We get Fresh & Fit.
White man will destroy the whole world to keep his family and community together lol.
BDP™️
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Nope. Because I know different people have different deal breakers in realtionships.
My belief (again from experience and not hypotheticals) Is that outside of abuse a married couple can put in the work and overcome infidelity, financial hardships, lack of intimacy and any other issues. But it takes both to be willing to do the work and I understand people have their limits and deal breakers
But IMO aint so such thing as “irreconcilable differences” its more like it got to a certain point where one or both parties just quit
Swabbie
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I love that you're so optimistic
BDP™️
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You can say that but like I said bro
I take that stance cause I actually lived it lol
My wife and I have been thru shit that have killed other people’s marriages bro
So from MY perspective aint no such thing as irreconcilable differences
But I also understand that everybody dont have the same capacity to forgive, to put ego aside and take L’s and look “crazy for staying”, to be patient and suffer long with a person…
They reach a limit and tap out. It is what it is
I feel youYou can say that but like I said bro
I take that stance cause I actually lived it lol
My wife and I have been thru shit that have killed other people’s marriages bro
So from MY perspective aint no such thing as irreconcilable differences
But I also understand that everybody dont have the same capacity to forgive, to put ego aside and take L’s and look “crazy for staying”, to be patient and suffer long with a person…
They reach a limit and tap out. It is what it is
I was about to edit my post but the key part you said is BOTH people have to be willing
I feel the same way... It's possible but not likely cause often times people are going to always worry about what other people think on both sides
If I woman takes a man back then it's "girl she stupid"
If a man takes the woman back then it's "you're a better man than me"
People gotta stop living by other's people's standards and their approvals and worry about you and yours. Get counseling if you need it and rebuild that shit if you can
SeaSnake
OG
This man understands marriage is a
duty and an oath.
Majority of marriages fail due to a lack problem solving capability and compassion.
Thus, people quit.
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The Lonious Monk
Celestial Souljah
That's not part of the gender war though.
That's based on racist ideology. The white men and women that believe in that shit have no problem settling down with each other, so I really don't understand what that has to do with anything.