Cheating Culture
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Playmaker88
G Money is Cash
Agreed. It weakness but universally accepted.
Man/woman up be accountable get comfortable with yourself
Man/woman up be accountable get comfortable with yourself
Why do you feel it's universally accepted?
Dwayne
Not Like Us
Part of it it’s being forced in all form of media/entertainment.
So cheating is mainstream and when something is mainstream it becomes “cool” acceptable.
#ShunThem
Playmaker88
G Money is Cash
Because everyone does it, its no pressure to be accountable look over your left and right shoulder people are listening to their friends and they arent saying hey girl/man dont do wrong by that man/woman the negative reinforcement is told and modeled
Elzo69Renaissance
These scars are the only real proof they could not
This generation has a lack of accountability issue
Dwayne
Not Like Us
How is anyone supposed to feel bad about doing something when there is no benefits to not doing it?
Are there family structures that people marry into that will reduce their financial burden?
Is there a welcoming community that people marry into that reduces their sense of disconnectedness?
Lol, cheating and other sexual immoralities was frowned upon because it was an affront to an entire community that accepted a person from somewhere else.
We don't have that anymore and on top of that lol, someone can go on their phone and be in contact with thousands of people.
Lol, like, if someone cheats on you in this day and age, it's meaningless. It don't mean shit. Can't even be mad.
Are there family structures that people marry into that will reduce their financial burden?
Is there a welcoming community that people marry into that reduces their sense of disconnectedness?
Lol, cheating and other sexual immoralities was frowned upon because it was an affront to an entire community that accepted a person from somewhere else.
We don't have that anymore and on top of that lol, someone can go on their phone and be in contact with thousands of people.
Lol, like, if someone cheats on you in this day and age, it's meaningless. It don't mean shit. Can't even be mad.
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SeaSnake
OG
Because it’s so common and people openly talk about being a side. Not saying cheating is more common but it seems like it’s expected that a relationship will fail due to cheating.
Elzo69Renaissance
These scars are the only real proof they could not
Example this girl I know is dating a nigga after like a year they get engaged after their engagement she starts to feel like homie is no longer putting effort in the relationship so she immediately gets a boyfriend…. So she s engaged and has a boyfriend who the fiancée knows nothing about
And the consensus from her crew is if homie was handling his biz she would nt have to get a bf
Im like wtf
Mister B. M. Ed.
The Devil’s Greatest Advocate…..
#BlackMenDontCheat
Right?
Right?
Dwayne
Not Like Us
It’s not.
It’s brushed off
It should be looked at so vile. We all had friends that cheated on their lady/man when we were younger and didn’t even care.
Saying cheating culture is such a broad stroke as there are way more ways to cheat than the actual physical cheating. Like ap said need a baseline to go by.
I also don't think we can have this discussion based on mindsets that we had during our 20s
So before this goes any further, yes, I turned a blind eye and was complicit in a lot of my friends cheating on their significant others when I was that age
Now? You can't come around me if you're on that kinda time
