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It's interesting that some men think it's easier to deal with the stress of a crazy woman then deal with a woman that's going to require him to use some actual emotional intelligence.
There less stress involved, from the way we think. Stress involved stuff we can’t just readily solve. Everything from crazy women is more annoying than anything.
It’s annoying that she wants to go out after I been working all day, just to sit at a dark bar with loud music so she can feel validated and look cute
It’s annoying that she thinks I’m cheating on her cause there’s a conversation on my phone from a number she don’t recognize
It’s annoying that she wants attention and only knows how to get it by actively trying to irk me.
It’s annoying that she wants to fight a female family member of mine for some stupid reason that an actual adult can overcome.
Solutions
Give her want she wants and just drink to deal at the bar..now she good
Give her attention she wants by feeding into her need for it..now she good
Give her a gift or something to distract her long enough to stop caring..now she good
It’s stressful however when you know you have to be considerate about what her day was like. Not cause she wants attention but validation because you care. But you know your social battery is through and if you don’t do it right. It can snowball.
It’s stressful when she’s going through something and you have to attentively be present because she values you the same way and you have to reciprocate because she understands reciprocatation
It’s stressful when you just want some ass but you haven’t been putting in the necessary work to make her feel wanted through unsexual affection, so now she just feels like an object and she knows she’s more than that, and deserves more.
Those aren’t easy solutions, they all require us to actually be present and not just give the thing we think y’all want. Like the scene in white man can’t jump when she asked for water.
A crazy woman actually just wants the water