Ugh.. finally at the computer.
As you stated previously love, 27 out of the 30 couples from a previous engagement live in this way. My thoughts were what they were at the time and my comment still stands. I do not troll or need to big up myself on an internet forum, so there was no ulterior motive at all.
Many hold their tongue on views they believe will receive negative reactions from those whom do not agree with them.
I do not. Of course if we all agreed there would be no discussion at all.
But I love that we are different so it doesn't bother me when we get into our little tiffs. lol
Perhaps some were offended by my comment, as she was. But how is my belief and the expression of said belief any different from one who believes anal sex is nasty and degrading and they express it openly even though others enjoy it?
Could one not be offended at being called nasty or being frowned upon for something they enjoy?
How about the Christian's whom share the same view and follow the same teachings, using scripture to point out the wrong doings of others? You are a slut, whore, harlot for having sex or having children out of wedlock and divorce is the ultimate sin.
lol... To some all of the above is wrong and shameful, to others it's the norm. It's all based on said circles and the life you lead.
I believe it is a woman's duty and honor to make her man's plate.
it is considered A 'real woman' characteristic in the circles I run in, and many who were in attendance share this view. Young and old. So to them, my view was on point, but to ya'll and others I was wrong for even thinking this way let alone expressing it.
She got an attitude because someone else did what she should have and she'll either pick up said trait or change her circle, either way my thoughts are the same and life goes on.
We were not built to be identical and I understand that, but there really is no wrong or right way of thinking if what you believe works for you.
Worst case scenario, someone won't agree with you.
But a wise woman
@BNE once said "What you eat don't make me sh*t and vice versa". ;-)