Let me repeat again for yall nasty folks..NONSEXUAL....
Lol so Rem who was fixing your mans plate at family get togethers?
But nah, all of these things seem pretty reasonable and doable. I admit I'm bad on texting/phone calls and use to look at my female elders with side eyes when they'd get on me about not fixing plates.
I underestimated the value of a woman who can cook a good meal until I ended up with one that couldn’t
I mean.... I did sometimes...Lol so Rem who was fixing your mans plate at family get togethers?
And when u didnt?I mean.... I did sometimes...
If I didn't then he either fixed it himself or whoever was serving the food did. At the time I didn't see it as a big deal and didn't understand why my Aunties & Nem were making it one. I think them telling me it was my job as a woman and that I was supposed to do it took away the feeling of doing it out of appreciation and made me resistant to it.And when u didnt?
Im here to be understanding and provide constructive feedback
So would u say u learned from that n would "fix" it for the next man u love?If I didn't then he either fixed it himself or whoever was serving the food did. At the time I didn't see it as a big deal and didn't understand why my Aunties & Nem were making it one. I think them telling me it was my job as a woman and that I was supposed to do it took away the feeling of doing it out of appreciation and made me resistant to it.