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Why Are Females So Hesitant To Post Here?

Beta said:
Doing anything you wouldn't normally be doing when you posting and participating here.

If you a mod that's diff, but if I'm changing how I'm posting as a reg poster, or going out my way to make someone feel okay enough to post more on a forum, that's bending backwards
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agree
 
Beta said:
I appreciate that man that's all I'm saying. If men said they didn't feel comfortable here and weren't posting much because of it are the women gonna go out their way like these threads recently and attack other women's methods of why the men feel that way?

Fuck no lol

As far as the women or lack thereof, you gotta create your own opportunity
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Its a double standard that exists...

You got a point, but theres a way to balance it. But like Du said, it was cool in the beginning. And there wasnt any simping or kid gloves being used.

Niggas just wanna nig and think its supposed to be cool. Thats what happens tho.
 
Gotta expand the range of topics to draw a diverse crowd.

Tbh mods should be charged with a thread of the day. Find an interesting or trending topic make a thread about that shit, sticky it for 24hr.

There's a lot of interesting shit goin on in the world, and the most poppin topic on the sub is "Fellas where did all the internet pussy i was never gonna get go?"

Keep it a buck, most y'all Niggas bout as boring as these females.

People just want to be entertained.

That should be the first and only clause.
 
Because they have Etsy, Pinterest, Twitter and Instagram.


How can you compete with that.

Do you niggas offer the ability to scrapbook?

Find a way to add scrapbooking to the forum and watch what happens.
 
idk man...for every Kandy, you got 10 chicks (generally speaking and not specific to this site) that just not like her

kandy came here with this being her first message board and hit the ground running. Thats rare af. She went through her growing pains early but adapted quick af.

I've been on the IC, Blackboard, and now here. Many of you who were on BB (@Beta) witnessed how that Tea thread pulled ALL the women to that area of the site, and thats where they stayed. We had a buncha convos about how to pull them out that area of the site b/c they wouldn't leave that area for NOTHING. You at them to threads, and they just lurked and maybe hit a reaction or two but rarely if ever shared their thoughts

I would love for the females to be more active b/c i think it brings GREAT balance to the discussions. I've disagreed with @Golden SEVERAL times on topics (pre Goldie and post Goldie lol) and we've always managed to keep it light hearted and fun even when we disagreed.

Same with kandy, meeks, reese, race, blac...etc...Their opinions, imo, are wanted b/c its different.
 
Beta said:
See AP? He was serious lol

A good resolution to what? Females posting more?
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I think if females posted more, females would post more lol

I'm sure kandy doesn't like how everything is but she still all over here making polls, threads, etc. And you know what? She entertains herself. Why can't others do that? Because they either don't have the time, lazy as fuck, or kinda don't care enough on the low to do it. In the sense they just wanna come here and partake in the fun but don't wanna generate fun
 
My thoughts are:

1. If we're asking why more women don't post are participate more often, we gotta accept the answers from women. Throwing in our opinion is counter productive, which leads me to my next point

2. We as in black men and women, don't know how to talk to each other anymore. Everything is viewed as a personal attack, and "if you don't agree with me 100% then fuck you." That's not balance. I believe the displacement of the black family has led to us not having that good balance in learning how to interact with one another. At the end of the day we gotta fix this. We live in a world that hates us for the color of our skin. We all we got and as soon as we understand that we'll rule the planet.

Thats all I got for now
 
Black_Samson said:
Because they have Etsy, Pinterest, Twitter and Instagram.


How can you compete with that.

Do you niggas offer the ability to scrapbook?

Find a way to add scrapbooking to the forum and watch what happens.
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you scrapbook too my g??
 
AP21 said:
idk man...for every Kandy, you got 10 chicks (generally speaking and not specific to this site) that just not like her

kandy came here with this being her first message board and hit the ground running. Thats rare af. She went through her growing pains early but adapted quick af.

I've been on the IC, Blackboard, and now here. Many of you who were on BB (@Beta) witnessed how that Tea thread pulled ALL the women to that area of the site, and thats where they stayed. We had a buncha convos about how to pull them out that area of the site b/c they wouldn't leave that area for NOTHING. You at them to threads, and they just lurked and maybe hit a reaction or two but rarely if ever shared their thoughts

I would love for the females to be more active b/c i think it brings GREAT balance to the discussions. I've agreed with @Golden SEVERAL times on topics (pre Goldie and post Goldie lol) and we've always managed to keep it light hearted and fun even when we disagreed.

Same with kandy, meeks, reese, race, blac...etc...Their opinions, imo, are wanted b/c its different.
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Look at you...sounding like a more affluent beta

Good job man
 
The Mad Titan said:
My thoughts are:

1. If we're asking why more women don't post are participate more often, we gotta accept the answers from women. Throwing in our opinion is counter productive, which leads me to my next point

2. We as in black men and women, don't know how to talk to each other anymore. Everything is viewed as a personal attack, and "if you don't agree with me 100% then fuck you." That's not balance. I believe the displacement of the black family has led to us not having that good balance in learning how to interact with one another. At the end of the day we gotta fix this. We live in a world that hates us for the color of our skin. We all we got and as soon as we understand that we'll rule the planet.

Thats all I got for now
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good points
 
Most of the chicks was stuck in the cool table and didn't venture outside of it and like I said when this part of the forum started falling off they left
 
Ronin said:
Gotta expand the range of topics to draw a diverse crowd.

Tbh mods should be charged with a thread of the day. Find an interesting or trending topic make a thread about that shit, sticky it for 24hr.

There's a lot of interesting shit goin on in the world, and the most poppin topic on the sub is "Fellas where did all the internet pussy i was never gonna get go?"

Keep it a buck, most y'all Niggas bout as boring as these females.

People just want to be entertained.

That should be the first and only clause.
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great idea....but you have to have a diverse crowd or a crowd with diverse thinking.
or even the will to want to join in to learn something they dont know about.

and you are right.....alot of these posters are boring as shit.

but no all...i still look forward to reading certain people posts.
 
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