Voice Memo Guy

Knock_Twice

Knock_Twice

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Not sure you all are up on this story, I just got put on to it, but apparently dude sent over a voice message to ole girl, saying he's not driving all the way over to her crib for nothing.

Saying that he needs a physical connection or some shit.

Thoughts,

Being up front or the dude is out of line for stating what he wants. I've done it, on some look, just know if I pull up, I aint trying to watch movies all dayum night.

I wasn't shy about letting a chick know what the deal was up front.


 
Duwop said:
I ain't penalizing, I'm just saying niggas are limited in their communication skills with women....
Saying shit like that drys the chicks up... Niggas have no game
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I respect it.

Do you think it's better to waste your time and hers then by playing the long ball or keeping your intentions to yourself?
 
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Duwop said:
I ain't penalizing, I'm just saying niggas are limited in their communication skills with women....
Saying shit like that drys the chicks up... Niggas have no game
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Would it be on some loser energy if a chick hit you up on some, I need that. after a 1 or 2 dates?

Chicks these days send over text message, "I need that" or "Im bout to pull up" after a few convos and a night at the daiquiri shop

Or these chicks/women losers too?
 
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Knock_Twice said:
I respect it.

Do you think it's better to waste your time and hers then by playing the long ball or keeping your intentions to yourself?
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If your outlook of not smashing is wasting time. You looking at it crazy.

Just pay for the shit if you feel entitled.

Niggas don't know how to create a vibe and start making demands.. That's not it.

If sex going to be transactional.... You might as well pay up front.
 
Knock_Twice said:
Would it be on some loser energy if a chick hit you up on some, I need that. after a 1 or 2 dates?

Chicks these days send over text message, "I need that" or "Im bout to pull up" after a few convos and a night at the daiquiri shop

Or these chicks/women losers too?
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If a chick hit me up after 1 or 2 dates like she needs that. Imma think shorty a bop, and I might still smash, but that's pretty much as far as it goes
 
Duwop said:
If your outlook of not smashing is wasting time. You looking at it crazy.

Just pay for the shit if you feel entitled.

Niggas don't know how to create a vibe and start making demands.. That's not it.

If sex going to be transactional.... You might as well pay up front.
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I get it.

Some dudes may look at it as, some girls don't get dates or get a vibe in that way. It's not about paying for it. Why can't it just be about not wanting to go around the bases, why it can't be on some, hey, let me just get in and get out without having a so call vibe
 
Duwop said:
If a chick hit me up after 1 or 2 dates like she needs that. Imma think shorty a bop, and I might still smash, but that's pretty much as far as it goes
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Would it depend of the woman's age for her to be considered a bop if she came at you like this, if she's 24, 34, 44, 54, 64, or all these women bops, just because they asked you to smash after 1 or 2 dates?

Most dudes may have that thought process, a few may think that she knows what she wants and she's being very up front about hers.
 
Knock_Twice said:
I get it.

Some dudes may look at it as, some girls don't get dates or get a vibe in that way. It's not about paying for it. Why can't it just be about not wanting to go around the bases, why it can't be on some, hey, let me just get in and get out without having a so call vibe
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That's cool if it's an established mutual understanding. We have a physical relationship. It benefits us both, and nobody feels used, or taken advantage of. And again, that comes from proper communication.


But when it comes to...

If I do this... Then I expect sex in return.

That's transactional..... Basically the same thing as paying.
 
Knock_Twice said:
Would it depend of the woman's age for her to be considered a bop if she came at you like this, if she's 24, 34, 44, 54, 64, or all these women bops, just because they asked you to smash after 1 or 2 dates?

Most dudes may have that thought process, a few may think that she knows what she wants and she's being very up front about hers.
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Age isn't a factor.. How she goes about it would be how she would be treated. The date thing is the issue. Like why are we going on dates if you just looking for a fuck buddy?

Her being up front would be her saying, she not really looking for dates, or feelings, or a relationship. She's just looking for someone who is cool with casual hook ups. I would respect that more than a chick who goes thru multiple dates like it's one thing, then try to flip it to something else.
 
Knock_Twice said:
I was going to make a thread about that, but came across the memo thing.

Imaging your chick following you and waiting by the door while you go to the bathroom. I wasn't mad about that.
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Everybody wants that dynamic till they get it and realize they actually didn’t want it, now they have the very enjoyable task of getting rid of it without losing your life, freedom, family or friends.

Dating in this era would absolutely horrify me if I weren’t married.
A bad breakup or a crazy ex can follow you today way longer than it could back in 2000.

Spooky.
 
Duwop said:
Age isn't a factor.. How she goes about it would be how she would be treated. The date thing is the issue. Like why are we going on dates if you just looking for a fuck buddy?

Her being up front would be her saying, she not really looking for dates, or feelings, or a relationship. She's just looking for someone who is cool with casual hook ups. I would respect that more than a chick who goes thru multiple dates like it's one thing, then try to flip it to something else.
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Why would you respect her and not show the same respect to the dude who is upfront with his intentions? She's respected but the dude has no game and is a loser?

Not a gotcha or anything but I see dudes get a bad rap when they are upfront, but chicks are more so in a way, praised for being upfront, if they on some, "I need that" out the box.
 
Knock_Twice said:
Why would you respect her and not show the same respect to the dude who is upfront with his intentions? She's respected but the dude has no game and is a loser?

Not a gotcha or anything but I see dudes get a bad rap when they are upfront, but chicks are more so in a way, praised for being upfront, if they on some, "I need that" out the box.
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Dude said if I come over there, I need to fuck...

That's wild.

It's all in how you say it. You can communicate the same thing without making it an ultimatum
 
Duwop said:
Dude said if I come over there, I need to fuck...

That's wild.

It's all in how you say it. You can communicate the same thing without making it an ultimatum
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Very wild, especially after truly not knowing the chick or so. idk. Buddy was glitching, maybe it was that speed or meth kicking in
 
My go to was always

I don't do attachments, I just be trying live in the moment and just have fun. I ain't looking for a GF, and I ain't tryna be nobody man. I'm just tryna have cool casual fun. If that's your thing, then that's what's up. But if you looking for someone that's really gonna commit themselves to you and build something...I don't even wanna waste your time.

That's being up front.
 
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